Honestly, I don't know how the dating scene was back in the days, I'm just 21 but I can say that I have experienced my fair share of relationshits. In our current generation i.e social media gen it's batshit fucked up. I can say for sure that 100% of the people I know that are in relationships are either cheating or thinking of ways to hop into a new relationship with someone new because hey why not? New is exciting, all these are backed by social media, dating apps.
And I thought us men were the real devil's but nope it's actually the woman who are crazy and actually obsessed over their social status, narcissistic, self centered, selfish, and thinking of new ways to feed their ego. Back then when I was still using Instagram and Facebook I had seen enough of thots, getting flooded by comments of guys which instantly boosts her ego which by default makes her think she's the bomb and it's all cringy af. I have first hand experience at how narcissistic and self obsessed woman are now days because I experienced it first hand from my ex. I used to believe in love but not anymore thanks to my narcissistic ex. I did my best to keep her happy. I tried my best to protect her. I introduced her to my family who actually liked her. I gave my time to her. I trusted her wholeheartedly. I gave her space. I wasn't controlling.

And what did I get in return u ask? She broke up with me over a text after sleeping with another guy and now posts pics of them together on Instagram. Self respect ? Nah it doesn't exist anymore. And a woman without self respect is only trouble. I can proudly say that I don't believe in love anymore. I don't believe in commitment anymore. Go your own way men, be the person that makes you happy. Live life stress-free. I am red pilled now and in a phase where everything in my life is confusing but hey I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.