One definition of madness is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome. Second / third marriages are a good example.....take this chap's story for instance. His 2nd marriage ended up sexless, then his 3rd wife promised that would never happen...yet it did. Face it men, women will say and do anything to get you to sign that contract, then all bets are off.

https://www.reddit.com/r/DeadBedrooms/comments/lnvpxq/dont_wait/