We’ve been together for two years. He is divorced His ex wife was Muslim and they had to get married for dating purposes. He has admitted he doesn’t think they would have gotten married if it weren’t for that stipulation. Our relationship started off really weird in that I met his ex wife as “one of the guys” (bmw club) after some time it became clear that the ex wife had cheated and moved on with his best friend. My boyfriend not wanting confrontation pretended he was okay with everything and they all would hang out and fix cars. After 6 months it became to weird for me and we broke up. My position was that he obviously had not processed everything, he was in denial and he should call me when he’s ready. Fast forward the ex wife and the best friend are out of the picture; and they are married now. We are figuring out this next step in our relationship.He is a very sweet guy that caters to my every need but an engagement. Lol He is very laid back and has admitted that he gets comfortable in relationships. I love him dearly but I don’t want to be led on. I’ve been very open with what marriage means to me and why I hold value to it. Pretty much it has been all words and empty promises. I do realize two years is not that long in comparison with other relationships but I am not getting any younger.

TL;DR waiting for a ring wondering if I should leave take a break or wait.