MGTOW at 19?

DangZagnut · 2018-07-02T01:10:57+00:00

I'm not sure if this is a healthy attitude to adopt at my age.

Focusing on your health, wealth, career, and education is unhealthy?

Compared to getting your dick wet?

I think getting communicable, permanent, diseases for a quick spurt of baby gravy fails a cost benefit analysis.

Should you bang all the whores you can? Sure, if that's your thing.

The issue isn't going from 60 mph to hard brake stop and live in a monastery, but that you should be 100% aware of how both biologically things work, and how society works, and how title IX works.

Are you willing to throw your education away because some girl decides you raped her because you walked by her on the street, and you get kicked out of school? Or a girl changes her mind about sex and gets jealous you broke up with her so claims you raped her?

Only you can do the cost/benefit analysis on that, and if that's in your best interests. Does it happen often? No. There are millions of students fucking and only a few dozen public cases that people are aware of. You have to do a risk assessment and decide what your risk tolerance is to the playing surface where you are.

Inherently the "lifestyle" is up to you. If it isn't for you, it isn't for you. Don't feel obligated. At the same time, the more you focus on you and your needs, in the long run, the happier you'll be.

Thunderfin · 2018-07-02T01:08:48+00:00

Im 20, in college, and basically doing the same. Although im still going to date without serious intentions in order to gain experience while i can. I think its pointless to try to pursue girls as finding love that way isnt possible. Im just going to improve myself, put myself out there and make myself available and see what happens.

silive · 2018-07-02T01:31:16+00:00

You're learning fast, young padawan.. Wish I had the Internet while growing up. Still managed not to get married and never even allowed a camel into my tent. P.S. You're doing great! Concentrate on cash and ignore the females.

camknight15 · 2018-07-02T02:10:48+00:00

Currently 20 and in college. Don’t take these women seriously. As soon as you feel like a woman wants you for yourself and not your money or success, recall those countless stories of female infidelity and remember AWALT.

Ghustgan · 2018-07-02T15:16:50+00:00

The whole virginity thing is the last straw (or maybe there are others?) keeping you from becoming truly free. Stop judging yourself based on external validation. This whole virginity thing is bogus. Do it because you want to, not because you are expected to by someone else. You are in control of your life, nobody else. That's the point.

figwhistler · 2018-07-02T01:31:43+00:00

I've pretty much been this way since I was 12.

You might be anxious but you're still young. You have all the time to try and do the things you missed out on. But yeah, be selfish and focus on yourself first and foremost.

everythingisatoms · 2018-07-02T02:32:41+00:00

You hit the jackpot man. I wish I’d have known MGTOW when I was your age.

AllureFX · 2018-07-02T03:06:10+00:00

This might sound anti MGTOW but if u had no experience with women, you should at least play the field but focus on urself first and always first. I think its good to be in the trenches early on at least so u can have some hands on experience before making the decision on how u want to live ur life. If u go MGTOW early with no experience u could get suckered in later on if u dont know the signs and games women play first hand, and could fall into the "shes different" trap, and look back on us as just bitter even tho u wouldve barely had any experience with women

ChadThundercock7 · 2018-07-02T01:21:48+00:00

> I'm not sure if this is a healthy attitude to adopt

An actitud of self improving and focusing on career is never wrong, i may seen difficult at first, but very fruitful
when reaching the goal... life and problems tend to resolve themselves for those who can keep a clear mind.

Keep that mind of yours busy, focus on your activities and anxiety will leave you for good.

keep it up.

WolfgangBreitweit · 2018-07-02T09:04:27+00:00

Monks start with 12 years.

kazoodles_ · 2018-07-02T11:29:13+00:00

Anxiety is a normal part of life. This is coming from a place of someone who suffered from severe anxiety disorder for 4-5 years. If you are chasing the uncertainty over whether this will negatively affect you or whether it's connected to anxiety, you will only face more anxiety and uncertainty. The only healthy thing you can do is act upon your values. If that involves women, so be it. If it doesn't, so be it. That is up for you to decide. You will always experience uncertainty over whether this is the right choice.

Put simply, engaging with this question is part of the problem in regards to anxiety disorder as well as your mental health in general. If you are interested by some of the things I say, and want help with bettering your mental health I suggest checking out Mark Freeman's channel on youtube. He's the bald white guy. He makes videos particularly about OCD but his principles can be applied holistically. Good luck.

MrMannheim · 2018-07-03T00:53:54+00:00

Most men your age are either at the nightclub throwing away thousands of dollars in drinks for used, diseased pussy or are learning how to tie a slipknot because they can't understand how their life went so wrong.

The fact that you have recognized the need to improve yourself both physically, emotionally, mentally, and careerwise is impressive at such a young age.

Take it from me, I battled with depression alone for decades and it will NEVER leave you. You will always occasionally have "negative thoughts", but that's life, man. You are on a FAR better track dealing with it than 99% of humanity who drown themselves in fast food, drugs, and alcohol and have no clue why their life is deteriorating.

Never let your sexual inexperience bring you down. I promise you, it ain't that important and it isn't worth the hassle. Keep up the good work and never give up.

Title	MGTOW at 19?
Author	Thunderfin
Upvotes	21
Comments	19
Date	July 2, 2018 1:03 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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