I’ve seen a bit of confusion on here and on other websites aswell recently, I do not care if women want to infiltrate in here or trolls want to throw away their time, just remember that it is a matter of time before you get caught, you cannot and will not write and think as a man, ever.

I’ve seen posts that want to define MGTOW, as a philosophy picked up by all kinds of men(ex-bluepills, purple pills, redpills, Chads, Bobs, people with great experience with women and people with little to no experience), it gets shaped in many forms. One of the things that we may all agree on is that “it is your way”, so each single one of us decide how to behave during his own life, with his own time and money. Doesn’t matter if you go monk, if you are a virgin, or if you pump and dump and you’ve seen more than 50 pussies.

But without the personal touch that every one of us gives to it, what idetifies MGTOW in an universal way? Many of us write that “you do not get married and do not cohabitate”, seems good enough to keep your freedom, but is that enough to keep your integrity and freedom? Even without marrying or cohabitating if you let a woman enter in your life and you have sex with her, and go out with her spending most of your free time with/for her then we can say that you are having a relationship with said woman, and as many of you know once a relationship is born there are only two ways:

1) She get you to commit and pushes for cohabitation, children, marriage whatever, and it is a matter of time before you give up because “I think she is the right one”(oneitis).

2) Even if you committed to her with your time and sex, you deny her those things, and after some time she is going to end your relationship to search someone else that will give her what she wants.

Someone tried to write down MGTOW levels, from the hardcore one that do not interact with women and tries to avoid them at all costs, to the one still having normal relationships. But life is not a videogame, people changes, and people meet new people and decide to go out of their ways from time to time.

So I’ve decided to come up with a definition that could sum up what MGTOW means for men, both young and old, from any experience.

I have been reading and writing about MGTOW and TRP for more than a year now, so I decided to put the definition into words, I would like to hear what you think about this and if you concur with me:

Embracing the MGTOW philosophy means that you understood what times we are living, it means understanding that our society has turned into a gynocracy, where the game is ridden against men. Laws are staked against men, the statistics report that women tend to destroy our lives instead of enriching those. Family, kids and marriage are no more goals for both parties, but a mere instrument to control us and give all the power to the female side.

Because of those realizations, men that understand that their only weapon in this war is COMMITMENT have decided to withdraw it from any female, GANDHI style. MGTOW can be summed up in “not giving your commitment to any woman”, where the definition of commitment can be seen as this one:

Being bound emotionally or intellectually to a course of action or to another person or persons. The trait of sincerity and focused purpose. State of being pledged or engaged.

So to me it does not matter if you do not cohabitate or do not marry, are you giving your commitment to a woman? then you are not withdrawing it.

On a side note we also have to think about the men in here that are stucked, paying alimony and/or child support, or still married, or in a relationship(I know we have some good members that are in this situation). If you want to go 100% MGTOW make an exit plan and finally go free, only if you truly want this and are capable of taking care of yourself, MGTOW is not an easy way, but the payout is totally worth it.

It is not a short definition, but to me not giving away your commitment is the best way to embrace this life style and ambrace all the good things that comes from it. Cheers.