http://afroginthefjord.com/2016/03/06/what-do-norwegian-women-really-want-from-men/

Synopsis: Nothing new here gentlemen - Norwegian women want more masculine men while hamstering the keep-your-cake-but-also-eat-it paradox.

A French feminist ex-patriot in Norway warns that "real men" are not compatible with modern feminist ideals, from the outside looking in. Seeing the results of the gender-equality social experiment frustrates the French feminist author (women raised with gender equality are still subject to biological drives... this bothers her enough to write an article).

Women don't define masculinity. Go your own way; disregard female validation (which is internally inconsistent; a mink seeking a vole, metaphorically speaking).

This is an old hat, and most MGTOW are well aware of the mixed messages that female-defined-masculinity sends to young men.

The solution to the paradox (of this feminist, and of men confused about their masculinity) is to disregard women in the pursuit of the definition of masculinity.

You define man for yourself. Nietzsche's overman (one who has, like the "71. THE SAGE AS ASTRONOMER.--So long as thou feelest the stars as an "above thee," thou lackest the eye of the discerning one." - has overcome man, as counter-intuitive as that sounds; you become a man by getting over what is "man"... as defined by everyone except for you. You are the value-setter) has overcome the foolish definitions of what it is to be a man, which have been set forward by those who don't know.

I can't tell you what it is to be your own man - but this feminist sure as hell can't tell you, either.