writing in another post I realized........no matter what i say or think about women....in all my dating and relationships with them i have only had one real requirement, that both parties feel a 50/50 balance.

oh I paid for dinner all week. well next week is bj week for me. oh you want me to go to brunch with your mom, ok, give me saturday off to go have a day just with my bros.

I always thought that was kind...of how things work. when i write it down...i feel that's not a difficult requirement. ladies in the shadows who stalk this sub. i think most men here would agree with that 50/50 statement. if we could just have one thing, that we'd like a relationship that felt so balanced.

.....i'm 36 now....i've never met a single woman that wants anything close to that ratio. hate to admit it, i know us men have our own needs, sexually especially, but yeah every relationship i know i see the women's needs getting met and men getting walked all over.