My aunt is black. She's from the hood. Now she was dating a drug dealer (let's call him Brad) but he got locked up for a few years. So she met a short white unattractive older man. (Let's call him James) My aunt & obviously the typical black women wouldn't go for this type of man. But we all know why she did. Before we get into that though let me say she had a child with Brad at this time. Except it wasnt Brad's child because she was cheating. (But she claimed Brad was the man of her dreams)

Now she's struggling at this point My aunt moves in with james eventually. James had a nice big back yard & my family would have social gatherings there often. We looked at James as family. As kids we would often go to James house & to visit them & our friends in the area. A few years later Brad is released from prison. He instantly hits the streets to make some money. The day he was released my aunt met up with him. They actually Pulled up on the family to reintroduce us. Brad knew about james. But seen him as a joke because he was obviously being used. After they left. James called us asking if we seen our aunt. She packed her shit that day & left. Didn't even tell him what was going on. We never went back to James house or even spoke to him. We spent years there, treated him like family & in an instant my aunt just up & left the man that was caring for her & her child for years. She quickly got pregnant by brad & then right after got pregnant again. Meanwhile Brad is taking hard drugs. He's also still in the streets selling dope. But they make enough money to open up two businesses in the same place they're selling drugs & with dirty money & everyone knows them. Plus their doing illegal shit in said businesses. Businesses get shot up & James gets shot at. Several times. She refused to leave him. He got caught lying & cheating countless times. After a few years I just stopped listening & I think he eventually left her.

Her first daughter is 20 now. This first child raised the other two while aunty was out here doing drugs, & chasing her man.

Shes now another one of my roommates because her mother tried to actually beat (as in punching her in the face pulling her hair ect.) her because of some minor bs. we had to pull her off. & She's been living with us ever since. (She was 19 at the time)

Brothers never trust these hoes. Never give them the chance to fuck you over. Love yourself & never allow yourself to catch any feelings for these hoes. Women are narsasistic parasites.