Visited an old high school friend of mine not 3 weeks ago.

He has a wife who is "nice", but I can tell she has him on a short leash. She looks like she's 60, but she's barely 42.

He looks young for his age, although tired and laconic.

I stayed at his place (in London, both are originally from Canada, Scandinavian in ethnicity), the house was being renovated, due to his wifes request (read: demand).

Their two children go to a prestigious private school, although he doesnt make that much money, and she doesnt work at all.

Both children couldnt shake my hand if they tried. Distant, rude and entitled little shits. And these are the future. yeah right, "future".

She is a stay at home mom, but the house...FFS. Everything had grime and dust. My apartment is as clean as surgical steel compared to her house.

Stains, burn marks on the carpet, toilets were disgusting.

I cleaned my private bathroom the day I got there, my friend asked why, I said I felt more comfortable since it was dirty.

He didnt say anything.

Anyway, I leave after 3 days and that was that.

Later, he sends me a message saying thank you for the visit, although his wife was offended by me saying that the bathroom was dirty. He told her, like a little child telling mother.

What a FKN lame ass SOB.

I come back home and my apartment is, as always, spotless. My GF comes over (Latin American, beautiful soft skin, sparkling smile, energetic and hard working) and I talk about my trip.

She says "Your friend has no balls and she is a bitch". LoL. I get a massage and a nice plate of home made soup, made by her, and we watch Black Mirror. She cleans the dishes and we go out for a beer. We go to the train station and we part ways.

I pity my friend, but at the same time, I think he is an outright idiot.

I aint never going back there again. Its like going to Purgatory.