Need help and fast

libradragon87 · 2017-06-25T01:57:56+00:00

Find hobbies and passions that keep you busy.

DangZagnut · 2017-06-25T01:54:22+00:00

Unfortunately you were raised with a culture of family pressed upon you, which means much like a religion, you're going to have a hard time bouncing back from that, as you invested so much of your self-worth entirely on what, in most cases, turns into a complete hellish lie.

The future has no hope other than what you invent in your head. Hope you run a marathon and train for it. Hope to get a PhD in something and do that. Hope to travel to every country on Earth and do that.

You'll need to invent your own desires and future that you want, not one they told you that you had to have, which turned into a complete failure.

2017-06-25T01:55:32+00:00

Focus on yourself. What do you like to do? Do it harder. What would you like to do? Pursue that shit. There's no excuses now, go after that shit.

RedPillMGTOW · 2017-06-25T03:31:08+00:00

What kind of sports do you like? Watching and playing sports is great and you can meet new friends. If you have a soccer ground in your city go to the section where the hardcore fans are. You will see what passion is. Lifting weights makes you feel better. If you are big try basketball,volleyball or tennis. If you are smaller try soccer,hockey or table tennis.

project_mayhem_ · 2017-06-25T01:57:12+00:00

I have very little to go on, but I don't see any reason to think that there is anything wrong about you, just as you are. you have stated that you have been dependent on women for your self-esteem. this is nonsense. how can someone else's esteem for you be your self-esteem? I would encourage you to avoid women entirely for the time being. you are desperate to let one gain control over you.

how are you? like, really? can you take care of yourself materially? are you dependent on anyone else for anything that you genuinely need to survive?

mentalidade_logica · 2017-06-25T04:08:09+00:00

but this is better than being in a abusive relationship.

Congrats. Acceptance is the most difficult hurdle to overcome. Now take one step at the time.

but i have hard time to see hope for the future.

You seem to be now in between steps thus naturally things are not going as fast as you want them to be. Give yourself some time and remember to take one step at the time. From now on, start focusing on yourself, for yourself and there are quite a few good suggestions here for you to follow.

I speak for myself but no doubt others here will say the same thing, I'm here for you.

falselyaccusedguy234 · 2017-06-25T02:47:58+00:00

Just start doing stuff. Every time I feel lonely I remind myself that I accomplish more in a year now than I used to in a decade.

The only reason that you miss companionship is that it provided a safe space to be lazy, indulgent, sheltered and ignorant. Taking the world head on is scary at first, but then you remember that you are just a bunch of goop that is trying to maintain its coherence as it hurtles through space on a big rock warmed by a bigger ball of fire.

There is no reason, there is no purpose, nobody cares. Get up and control your own circumstances until the day that you cannot get up anymore.

Xlasingx · 2017-06-25T07:17:05+00:00

/u/Reinehc

imagine, after all you stated, you just got home from your depressing job and before that, your depressing sleep, which was after your depressing yesterday and so on..

you're sitting in your depressing front room, staring at a depressing wall, depressed..

you finally acknowledge, that wall is kinda depressing, and you pull out that depressing paint, you used 3 month ago, changing that wall, into something a little less depressing..

then, depressing sleep, depressing job, and now you find yourself, in your depressing home, staring at a depressing computer.. depressed..

you decide, the computer needs something less depressing.. you open up a word program and write a less depressing story, about anything..

then you sleep, depressing job, though now your staring at the depressing work you're doing, depressed.. you decide, time to make this a little less depressing.. you organize, creating action lists and goals..

you find yourself in your depressing home again, though something is clicked.. you decide, i'm gonna change the lighting setup and tomorrow, i'm gonna pick up that gaming system, and a few movies and go out for pizza, as a treat..

then you sleep, job, pizza, and now you're home playing "prey", having a few beers, enjoying your changed wall, recalling the last edits to the story you created, new lighting and toys, all for you..

now you note to yourself, "i need to get some sleep", cause you've made a list of things YOU WANT TO DO..

..and then tomorrow, and the next, and so on..

..and you will be able to, because you are free..

..best of all, no time for females, too busy doing awesomeness, and besides, once females are around, it's all about them..

..freedom, is a wonderful thing.. right..?

pm me, anytime..

mdcrubengonza · 2017-06-25T08:30:42+00:00

Gym, and eat right. You'll feel better in no time.

TigPlaze · 2017-06-26T19:53:06+00:00

Find mutual interest clubs on meetup.com and other places and go to their events. For example, I'm learning to speak French, so I go to French language events and cookouts. I've met some cool people.

Title	Need help and fast
Author	Reinehc
Upvotes	9
Comments	14
Date	June 25, 2017 1:48 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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