Hi everyone, hope you are doing well. Due to this pandemic I am working from home. I stay with my mother to save rent for both of us since having 2 families separately is not worth the cost as of now.

Now I have posted about this before and got suggestions to move out, and yes I am moving out next year once everything settles. I need input on different aspect.

From past 4 months, after the shift to the new company I am working for long time like 10-12 sometimes even 14 hrs per day for 5 days a week. This has actually caused a lot of strain in my relationship at home. I get irritated a lot. Also my mother asking me to help in her school work in the weekends doesn't help. I get short bursts of extreme anger when she asks followed by huge regret. And then I feel like shit for rest of the day.

Then this is brought up in the next discussion and I feel like I am a horrible person which further leads to worse situation next time.

Did any of you feel this way ever. How did you overcome this. I need frank assessment of my situation so I put this post here. Can you please give an insight?

I will answer any further questions necessary as long as it is not too personal. Edit: I am also working on Data Science Micromasters from MIT on EDX. This is extra 20 hrs per week.