dk if it happens to everybody when they take the pill, but now I see women and see that most of them dont have real hobbies, even when they have them, it revolves about being fucked or is something shitty like netflix or whatever, ffs, watching shitty netfliex series while eating pizza IS NOT A HOBBY.
Now I look at my ex gf and I kind of feel ashamed of being with her, she use to do sports and stuff, now her hobby is going to clubs and getting pounded by the guy of the week, I cant believe that I thought of her as a mother to my future sons.
And now I cant feel completely attached to women, I dont know why but whenever I talk to her its like talking to someone with fake or boring interests, I have never meet a woman interested in cool stuff that isn't old or at least a 4/10.
Its like I gave up, even hot ones just have that, their looks and that isnt enough, of course I would have sex with them, but what else?
And I feel fine, I do crossfit, rugby, I have my cats, more than enough friends and acquaintances,and two years more of engineering college (hopefully) but I feel like society is screaming at me that if I dont get a woman by my side I am doing something wrong.
I am taking new hobbies (photography and mountain climbing) but even when I talk about all of that, people will ask, and when are you getting a gf? Or even ask me if I am gay
So I am here for advice, did anyone went through something similar in the past? Is this just a phase? Do things get better?
Sorry about my English, I am from a Spanish speaking country
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