So I just had a discussion with a dude, basically it's all my fault that my gf's cheated on me.

I don't think he understands. When I fall in love I help much and stuff, I'm friendly. The girls didnt even care, trew me away. Even that could be somewhat acceptable but there was no 'sorry' for the cheating, no nothing.

How could you expect someone to get beaten and he should like it, get up and continue? Why should I get a gf for? Sex? Nah. Drama? Hell no. Having someone that you love by your side and to cuddle? That's what you have a best female friend for.

And then they call me a self made victim. I see only one, one that is a slave to the system