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And that's pretty reasonable. Nobody who values its own autonomy/individuality wants a servant. Moreover, that guy is apparently a codependent (someone who puts other's needs before their own without deliberating about risks and potential self-harm or without the other people asking for their help[boundary issue])). Did she ask him to fix her bike? Did she ask him to buy her groceries? I am not necessarily defending her (in fact, she seems to miss the previous chad who didn't give a shit about her), I am pointing that your conclusion is reasonable even if you were being ironic about it.
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I have a different take on that. The guy is a codependent and she is stating that this sucks, which I think that is reasonable. That does not invalidate what you've said though.
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