My dad passed away from a sudden heart attack on the 5/2. It was a shock b/c there was no signs etc. he was in good health. But this post isn't about losing my dad, but the lack of decency from my ex-wife.

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Here is how plastic a woman can be. The same woman who sent my mom a card with how she was grateful for my parents for being there for us through our challenges in our marriage ( which were 100% me dealing with her bullshit) ... which really upset my mom cause how can you be callous when my ex-wife knew that she was the one that cheated etc. and caused so much toxicity for everyone around

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Well I just discovered that this evil spirit has a new low of lows. For the last two weeks I have flown back to be with my mom and to take care of my dad's affairs and I let my ex-wife know that . I'm still trying to get over the shock of it as I talked to my dad pretty much every day.

Well she started pestering me about child support. Child support that is automatically taken out of my check each week. The reason for this is because even though I just started a new job at the end October, and even though the case workers were like let the guy get back on his feet, he's lost 4 jobs in 15 months ( 4 months unemployed - hurricane harvey just killed me ... never was unemployed prior in my 15 years) ... so give him time to get back on track. Even when I was unemployed I still paid child support and paid for health insurance . So she got them to readjust it to a higher amount even though I kept explaining to them that I am on contract, which is why I get paid higher but I could be let go whenever. It's more than my rent ( $1710 a month to take care of a 9 year old). No a 9 year old doesn't cost any where that to raise, but I remember what pissed me off when I was getting through that rough patch of 15 months and 4 job changes and 4 months unemployment was that she was worried she wouldn't be able to qualify for her house b/c the child support that I paid at the time allowed her to afford to pay for the house. I felt like shit then but this takes the cake.

Well her bitching about cs is the fact that it takes a few weeks for the new amount withdrawn to kick in so she's complaining about the difference. Now last month , I told her i would make up the difference on the 15th and 30th. And I did that except with the travel these last two weeks, I am late a few days.

She just went off about this and that and whatever. throwing a guilt trip on me. You know what amount of money we are arguing about . Since the new amount kicked in this week the difference for this month is $200 bucks (May has 5 weeks). I told her that she had no decency and she just is only about the money that I just lost my dad and such an unexpected way, I need to take care of my mom ( She'll be living with me ). I still have to get back to normal having been devastated financially from Hurricane Harvey. I have ptsd whenever there is a heavy thunderstorm.

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I just can't believe any one would essentially have zero empathy .. I mean for $200. My mom throw away that card she gave her.

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You know what is really fucked up... that bitch is a social worker.

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Moral of the story : Women can make the devil cry.