Question for sensitive men

DangZagnut · 2018-06-15T19:29:48+00:00

There’s nothing wrong faith loving a woman, the problem is thinking you’ll get anything in return for it.

It’s like loving children, they don’t care about you, they’re little sociopaths. But you love them because <stupid>.

Women are the same way, and not in any way because they’re children.

Xuppy · 2018-06-15T20:58:30+00:00

You don't really let go, it just gets torn from your hands eventually.

klim_milk · 2018-06-15T21:20:33+00:00

First, you're doing well.

Can I just say you're an extremely lucky son-of-a-bitch to be ahead of this before she wrecked your life? So many didn't even have that luxury before discovering AWALT.

Now, what I would do is watch the spicy memes here. They'll introduce you to how common thot tactics are. And then you'll see them all the time when you start simping for the next thot and she does exactly what an AWALT does. You'll snap out of it before it goes any further.

glad2besad · 2018-06-15T20:12:42+00:00

"She treated me like shit at times; however, I just liked her so much that I overlooked all that. After a year and a half of dealing with that sort of bullshit, she finally started treating me nicely. I thought that she started liking me because "she saw that I truly cared about her". What an idiot was I. She started treating me nicely because she found this guy who apparently she truly liked."

AWALT
If you don't learn anything from what I pulled from your post, you are unteachable.
A-FUCKING-WALT

She was treating you like shit because within 5 milliseconds of seeing you, she didn't want to bang. Sorry. Then she started treating you nice because when Chad ghosted her, she would have you to fall back on for attention to soften the landing on her ass. Sorry.

You were nothing more than a tool the entire time.

AWALT

blakeschou · 2018-06-15T20:51:46+00:00

Fuel for the fire man. Some People will hang you out to dry if you let them.

Live for yourself and surround yourself around people that appreciate your company. Life is too short to deal with that shit.

DarkWhale___ · 2018-06-15T20:23:34+00:00

Yeah i was a puppy once too. You need to kill this side of you. It’s your biggest weakness. Once you murder this sensitive bullshit you’ll move on to greater things: actually fucking girls. Trust me man. Take loads of red pills and cut this weak shit out.

SnackSquadTB · 2018-06-15T22:17:08+00:00

When I found a woman who treated me better but found out she treated one of her friends who I was getting to know like crap. I questioned their behavior, saw through the crap of my current partner and stopped hunting to think about human nature and wound up here. Thing is I care a lot for that friend who was treated horribly. She's there when I need her to be and is kind but the facts and data drive me away besides I personally care for her beyond wanting to be with her. I just want her to have a good life. It's like having a daughter or a good childhood friend. You want them to be successful even if you won't be there. So I'm kinda subtlety trying to warn her of the consequences of certain things women tend to do. (Ie the C.C. and how that will ruin her for mariage.)

SlainFunicle · 2018-06-16T01:26:09+00:00

Every morning you wake up look in the mirror and say i am a dick and i don't give a fuck

ygramul · 2018-06-16T01:44:07+00:00

Beware of 'achievable' women. They're not the 'hot' ones who you automatically discount as high-end goods and get your guard up. They're not the ugly ones who you ignore. They just seem to be 'at reach' and you let your guard down. Big mistake.

It's all the same engine under the hood. All of them are calculating, manipulative, and genuinely do not experience love the way you do. You can't blame them: they simply do not feel what you do, any more than what you smell in a room is not even a fraction of what a dog smells.

This sub is full of people who have been where you were. There's life after love, and it's here.

PanderjitSingh_k · 2018-06-15T19:32:42+00:00

Always the best thing is to have other women in your life. Minimize your risk (diversify your portfolio) so if one doesn’t work out you can easily drop her. If you don’t have any others right now, get some.

TheHandsomeMF · 2018-06-15T21:39:20+00:00

Jesus get some pussy, trust me.

If you can't get pussy get a fleshlight or a doll or something.

sphinx2626 · 2018-06-15T22:18:53+00:00

Imho you talked about idealizing a person. It is never a good idea to idealize anyone because everyone has flaws. If you would like to disillusion yourself from the Disney fairy tale of true love and Romanticism I would very much recommend studying Eastern philosophy on the female and female essence. Once you come to an understanding about the differences in the sexes will hopefully help you come to an understanding on how you need to behave around them and what boundaries need to be put into place in your heart and in your life. Also if you'd like to vomit in your mouth I'm pretty sure you're able to sit in the courtroom while divorce proceedings are happening. If you want to see what happens when the female has chosen hypergamy and uses the court system for divorce rape.... it can be a pretty strong incentive to harden that heart. <3 gl

MGTOW_4Life · 2018-06-16T09:50:36+00:00

It was really hard for me, and I don't think I've completely let go, but I know that my old sensitive, loving self is more or less comatose for all except my nuclear family. A few years ago I was known by my (college) friends as being "extremely nice." Now in grad school, I'm well known as being "the cynical one" (probably because I drop mild redpills).

It's really hard to let that go and become whatever I am now. I do miss the old me, and unfortunately, you're going to have to get used to being hated for being good. You'll eventually lose your nice side from abuse and/or lack of use; it will either be replaced by apathy (like me usually) or hatred (like me rarely) or depression (me once). Make male friends, maybe even female acquaintances (keep safe distance and never hang out alone) and get a dog (sadly I'm no dog person, but I hear that they work wonders for those who are).

Ghustgan · 2018-06-16T11:47:44+00:00

Bro, stop it. You just wanted to fuck her. Your brain chose her for procreation. Everything else is excuses. That's why you idealized her despite knowing she's shit. You said it yourself that she was shit. It's natural to be attracted to women, we are supposed to have sex with them, don't beat yourself over it. In time, you'll learn to control it.

johnsmidth · 2018-06-15T19:54:33+00:00

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Title	Question for sensitive men
Author	johnsmidth
Upvotes	22
Comments	25
Date	June 15, 2018 7:25 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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