r/AmITheAsshole is ripping this poor guy apart. Perfect case study of how a gynocentric, manhating society will beat down on a father and shaming him into submission. Comments downplaying his contributions & exaggerating the “torture” that is her emotional & dramatized pregnancy.

True_Wave · 2020-05-05T22:16:58+00:00

I'm gonna be honest and say I'm not going to read the replies because it's gonna piss me off.

wawakaka · 2020-05-05T22:34:00+00:00

That woman's great grandmother probably worked a farm, washed her clothes in a creek, cooked and cared for the children while pregnant

And she can't do any house work

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2020-05-06T00:22:43+00:00

They’re calling him the asshole for wanting an hour a day if video games but she gets to soak her feet and watch YouTube daily.

MGTOW_ENDER · 2020-05-05T23:02:13+00:00

Some pussy bitch mod locked the thread because he has nothing better to do. Anyway, this guy did nothing wrong

Niris_Chuy · 2020-05-06T01:24:36+00:00

YTA for not using dark mode. Lol.

realChebz · 2020-05-06T00:06:47+00:00

Ohh that's what I am missing when they tell me to man up and find a wife... Sounds like marriage is a bliss!

racing992 · 2020-05-05T23:54:43+00:00

Sounds like living in hell.

coolerdeath · 2020-05-06T01:59:29+00:00

they are actually shitting on him for wanting one fucking hour a day for himself

darkmoon20 · 2020-05-06T00:59:30+00:00

Lol the second I read this I thought “😬😬😬😬😬😬 you chose the wrong sub”

coolerdeath · 2020-05-06T02:03:14+00:00

he shouldnt have married in the first place, fuck sake why people dont ever learn

womenofcourse · 2020-05-06T00:48:32+00:00

THEY DON'T REALLY CARE ABOUT US

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jC3ty9zwwPA

resu12 · 2020-05-06T03:23:01+00:00

Like all I know is that if I ever want a child I'm not allowing the mother to ever be in his life. It's just gonna be my son and I. These women are too psychotic to be allowed children. Like my child is going to be safe with just me, his father. I'm gonna kick the mother out and never let her near MY child.

Sexy_McHandsome · 2020-05-06T03:34:09+00:00

I wonder if she doesn't respect him due to their jobs. I know plumbers make good money but she is an engineer which has higher status.

barkingtree25 · 2020-05-06T11:40:51+00:00

Women go on about how awful pregnancy is yet do it multiple times. Ive been kicked in the balls before. I would never voluntarily go through that again not for the perfect unicorn gf or any of that (maybe if you paid me a shit tonne). In conclusion pregnancy cant be that bad. Oh I also love how they always use the hormones excuse for pregnant womens abusive behaviour. I have serious bipolar. If I dont take my medicine I get so mad at small things that I actually attack people on the train to work for the slightest thing. Guess what I dont get a pass because my brain is wired different so you dont get a pass for a couple of hormones bitch.

TechRedRaider88 · 2020-05-06T11:03:14+00:00

AITA for telling my wife that we're BOTH pregnant?

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I know this sounds bad, but hear me out. im using a throwaway cuz my wife uses reddit, so please don't upvote this. I just want honest feedback.

My wife (29f) and I (27m) do well financially, so we decided to have our fourth child. Every single pregnancy we've been through my wife has been a complete nightmare. Some things I can deal with, like waking up to the sound of her puking her guts out every morning, but when she starts demanding I go to the store every day to get her snacks or set up her foot bath thingy because her feet are swollen, I get a little impatient. I work way longer hours than her in a much more physically demanding profession (I'm a plumber, she's an engineer) so I think we're putting an equal amount of effort into this baby.

And it's not like I don't help around the house, either. She does all the cooking and dishes, but I do laundry, take out garbage, and mow the lawn (we pay someone to do the floors and bathrooms weekly). My MIL comes over to help with the kids because she says I'm useless (ive been meaning to make a justnomil post about her), and while I appreciate the help I'm sick of her crap. Just because I want one hour of video games to myself a day instead of cleaning up messes in the kitchen doesn't mean I'm "useless".

This all came to head yesterday when my wife screamed at me from the kitchen to get off my ass and entertain our twins so she could focus on her meatloaf. I made a dumb joke about how this is the third meatloaf we'll be eating this week, and she. lost. her. shit. She told me how I have no sympathy for the fact that she's pregnant, I should be taking on more of her chores since I can't breastfeed, but then I reminded her that I still work a lot more hours than her, so I think we're basically both pregnant.

She got really quiet, and has only spoken to me regarding the kids since. I don't think I'm wrong but I'll apologize to her if it makes her happy. AITA here?

Edit: my wife does get breaks, guys. I set up the annoying foot bath thing every night while she does dishes and then she relaxes with it while watching YouTube every night while I put the kids to bed. She also won't eat my cooking because she grew up in southeast Asia and doesn't like American food. It's not my fault she's picky.

Edit 2: it's a Korean BBQ meatloaf she makes since some people pointed out meatloaf is typically American. Anyway, my wife found this post and now she wants us to do couples counseling. Thanks for the feedback, guys.

catsdontsmile · 2020-05-06T11:50:46+00:00

I unsubscribed from AITA a few weeks back. The concept of the sub is cool but I was an avid reader and realized it was a bunch of pandering simps and feminists. The only good answers would show up under controversial as they would get downvoted because they wouldn't align with their ideology.

The_Whorror_Show · 2020-05-06T06:49:19+00:00

These guys don't even know what kind of gynocentric trap they walk into when they ask Simps for advice.

If my wife is pregnant and I'm working, I don't give a fuck, the bitch is doing the cooking and cleaning, and I'm not going to be present to watch her blow out her vagina either.

resu12 · 2020-05-06T03:18:46+00:00

Oh shit I just made a post on this as well. I didn't know this was already talked about here. I've added my own thoughts on this AITA post in my own post. I'm actually so dumb founded by this post

shellbross · 2020-05-06T12:03:12+00:00

It's the fourth time he endure that shit. Honestly, no sympathy from me, he should have left the first time around, at this point he's literally just asking for it.

Unfigured · 2020-05-06T12:07:50+00:00

So glad I'm going my own way. I don't need to reason with a woman. I don't need to refute the cultural influences that made her this way. I don't need to challenge the cultural influnces that are making millions of women this way. I don't need to expose their bullshit statistics undergirding their bullshit narrative. I don't need to bring the truth while somehow sidestepping their hurt feelz. I don't even need to care how Team Men are doing relative to Team Women. None of that shit matters when you just go your own way. It's not your problem.