I saw multiple dating situations the last days, and I want to compare 2 dudes.

First, my friend, who is funny and optimistic, came with his date to an event where I was. He was himself, the same guy, maybe a little more flirty.

Then a random dude I met at a party. He always had his eyes on his date (almost felt creepy), and had a much colder tonality when he wasn't around her. And she wasn't really attracted to that guy in the end.

Moral of the story : the choad (product of gynocentric beliefs) isn't attractive, while the guy who is happy by himself and doesn't focus on women is the attractive one and the real man.