https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/9ff4uf/please_help_want_my_family_back_together_me_28m/

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"me and my exSO had an amazing relationship. One for the books. Anyways, we were together for 3 years until we broke it off over a year ago. She left me because she felt that I wasn't listening to her needs and felt that I didn't love her anymore."

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"The entire time I had done everything I could to prove to her that I was changing, begging for her back, proving that I do indeed love her. I was always there for her even when I should not have been, because of how much I do love her"

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"Until one day she came to me and basically told me she had to make a choice between me or the friend. If she chose me she would be with her daughters father, already have a home to stay, wouldn't have to worry about working, and be somewhat happy. On the other hand this new guy would be a good option for her and our daughter, because he is going to school to be a doctor and make 300,000 a year (lovely). BUT the issue with him is that he is going to school in Kentucky roughly 5 hours away now and will be there for 4 more years. She is planning on working to save money to move closer with my daughter so she can see him more often. All of this with this new guy is in the course of a month, so she is absolutely in love and in the new phase of the relationship. I am devastated that she chose him over me"