1) Red pill is not the official governing code of the world; it is for the individual to observe and make his conclusions and decide the future course of his life based on that. The difference between 'what they say' and 'what they do'. Never engage in directly speaking these objective truths. This world runs on comforting lies than damning truths.

People like Jordan Peterson who proclaims 'a man without a family by his 40 is finished' don't use the same tone for women not because they aren't aware; they are too aware and thus choose a politically correct language to survive in the public domain.

2) 'Men are assholes' is just psychological projection. Women who can't come to terms with the fact that they choose one, project their lack of judgement on the entire male community. White knights and orbiters rush immediately with their 'hey, not all men' without realizing this. Note well that psychology is now fully women dominated and they portray men as some heartless, lacking in empathy/sympathy (and it's social conditioning, of course; blame the patriarchy).

And an entire bunch of feminists relying on the above to be activists that get satiation from 'correcting' men through education reforms, deciding on public policy and such.

Gentle reminder to all men here to employ grayman tactics and never engage in any kind of argument with those who twist the language for their own benefit aka shifting goal posts. MGTOW differs from MRA because the former sees the latter as a futile exercise for the same reason.