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5. If she kissed another guy because you are in a long distance relationship.
It is possible to keep a woman faithful to you when in a long distance relationship, but if she doesn’t really feel a lot of respect, attraction and love for you, then the chances of her remaining are greatly reduced.
If you haven’t established a truly committed relationship with her where you and her know for sure that you want to spend the rest of your lives together, then it’s only natural that she will begin to stray if you spend too much time apart.
She will feel as though she is wasting time just waiting around for you because she doesn’t even know if you are the one for her.
Of course, on the phone, Skype, Facebook, via text and other forms of communication, she might say that she loves you, misses you and feels like you are the one for her, but that doesn’t guarantee that she won’t think differently when she’s around other guys who are making her feel attracted.
If your girlfriend has been actively hanging out with her single girlfriends to go out and party and get drunk, then it’s only natural that she will eventually cheat on you if you don’t have a deeply committed relationship where both of you know for sure that you want to be together for life.
So, what should you do?
If you want to keep her, you’ve got to continually be the sort of guy that she wants to remain faithful, rather than expecting her to remain faithful because things used to be good between you and her at the start of the relationship.
Women can remain faithful in a long distance relationship and a perfect example of that is when men are deployed overseas for their work with the armed services (e.g. army, navy, air force, etc).
These men are often away for more than 12 months at a time and they come back to women who have been waiting for them, excited to see them and have been completely faithful the entire time.
It is possible to make a woman remain that madly in love with you and be excited to see you, but you have to be the sort of man that she feels proud to be with.
If your girlfriend doesn’t feel proud to be with you and doesn’t really have much respect for you (e.g. because you’ve been insecure, don’t have much purpose in life outside of the relationship, etc), then she will more likely to cheat while you are apart.
( https://www.themodernman.com/blog/my-girlfriend-kissed-another-guy.html )
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My opinion on this:
As if this coach is like super joking. These military wives are cheating the most.
And as always, you are the fault, that someone other cheats on you. Telling same story again, again and again.
I'm tired of these coaches are letting people (male or female) to be tricked to a cheating manipulative partner.
IF someone cheats on you, that means, that this person is the faulty person and has not committed to the relationship and not YOU. If you dont want to be together with your partner, then JUST LEAVE.
If your partner abuses you - Call the police and DIVORCE
If your partner is not satifiying you - DIVORCE and LEAVE
If your partner is not faithful - DIVORCE and LEAVE
If your partner is not enough - DIVORCE and LEAVE
No one forces someone into a relationship. If you don't want, then you go to the exit --> DIVORCE.
And for people thinking that MODERATE JELOUSY is bad, they are totally simp/cucks who blind folded love. There is a jelousy, which is natural and healthy and there is jelousy which is dangerous.
MODERATE JELOUSY is, if you have real reasons to be jelous. Like if you find tinder on your partner phone, your partner stays at work to long or goes with your bf/gfs to clubs or anywhere else, he/ she has a lot of hiding from you, she is wearing slutty clothes or the worst, he/ she has male/female friends (which of course are "innocent" according to him/her). Moderate Jelousy will improve your relationship, save it and at the last help you not to be fooled by a partner.
DANGEROUS JELOUSY is, if you have no reason and you accuse him/her of cheating, which is something negetive and should be therapied. But we need to understand, that Dangerous Jelousy doesn't really exist in 99,99% of cases. The partner with his actions will make you jelous and want you to chill down, while they have done something, which they know, that this will hurt the relationship.
BEING INSECURE and having MODERATE JELOUSY means for me ...
-not let you deceive easy way.
-not being a cuck.
-not spend your entire life for manipulative man/woman.
People be it male or female should never ever blindfoldededly trust anyone.
Either someone is marriage material or not. If your so called partner wants to go to clubs, wear slutty outfits, has one friend of opposite gender, wants to party... and more....that this PARTNER is not MARRIAGE MATERIAL.
And PEOPLE saying, they unconditionally love someone are liars or insane person, who should seek professional help. We all love people because of reasons. If you love your partner, there should be some values you them for: Honesty, Mutual Love and such things:
Would you still love your partner, if your partner cheated on you? You are a fool and cuck.
Would you still love your patner, if he would beat you up? You are a psychopath and go to therapy.
Would you still love your partner, if he/she ordered to kill you? You are a psychopath and go to therpy. (and this really happend, that the husband forgave his wife for hiring a hitman to kill him: https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/1501527/Wife-jailed-for-hiring-hit-man-to-kill-forgiving-husband.html )
And last thing to talk about is about feminazis telling, that higher divorce rate are actually something good.
How about not marrying at all. No one is FORCING you. ( https://www.reddit.com/r/Feminism/comments/2g0lxs/if_feminism_is_at_fault_for_divorce_rates_id_like/ )
If Feminazis say, that higher divorce rate (70-80% initiated by women) is something positive, then this would in conclusion mean either of these two things.
You women are dumb to make the same mistake again and get into a bad relationship OR
You like the half of his husband share.
Feminazis should tell me, if they think, that they seek divorce, because the partner is fault, they should leave the marriage without his assets like you entered in. Why are you hiring lawyer which spoil your husband. Because that was mostly the reason for marrying him in the first place, isn't it?
Feminazis should then see it positive light , that less people are marrying. Because what is better? Not marrying at all or divorce.
But of course you want someones assets, you will say divorce.
If higher divorce rate means, that more women are leaving bad relationship, why you marry in the first place. Then you should marry. But we know, why you do?
And for Feminazis again: Why the search query in Reddit show me nothing, when I search for "paternity fraud" and "50 % women have back burner". You really have nothing to say about this?
THIS was some OUTRAGE. I'm tired of females and coaches lying.
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