Hello everyone, I've just finally started to take my first steps of going my own way after a 3 year relationship that I'm currently still trying to untangle myself out of and was hoping for some advice on my situation and hopefully some support. I'm currently 29 years old. I've usually been the loner type, never liked getting involved with too many people or there social situation. On stressful days from work you could find me drinking alone. Was also kind of a shy person. Lived on my own for about 2 years and was very happy but always wanted to find a girl who shared my interest which it was the biggest mistake of my life. I met a girl on okcupid. Things were ok for the first year we moved in quicker than I should of let happen. We had a few squabbles nothing serious. She had low self esteem issues which made our sex life rather difficult at times. She never wanted to do anything "erotic" got kinda boring at times this becomes a bigger issue later. This girl lies to me says she understands my desire to have a clean place, but never cleans I have to constantly beg her to clean up. This leads to many fights, she also had two cats that she very passively push the responsibility of cleaning up after them onto them. Things slowly begin to go down hill in the 2nd year when she ends up pregnant. I have a complete and total meltdown at this point I never wanted to have children. I ask her to have an abortion as she has done so in her only other previous relationship of five years. She won't do which makes me even more resentful toward her and the child. I continue to have my meltdown and throw things away I once cherished as I didn't see the point of keeping it, much of 2016 was a blackout for me. I went into a deep depression but she just keeps pushing along on her conquest to have a child. Child finally arrives and this woman has dug her claws into everyone around me singling me out forcing me into this situation. I try to do the right thing and be a dad but it doesn't get any easier. I even end up selling my pc at one point as I had all but given up (eventually I built a new one which anger this woman and she admits that she was envious of it). Once the child came into the picture she stop helping with the bills and only put money on the child. She just shoves the responsibility on me. She gets upset that the family life isn't what she imagined but continues to expect me to make it better somehow. She eventually comes up with the idea to move to her hometown with her family. Me in my depressed state mistakenly agrees. I end up surrounded by her family and working with her father and cousin. Things slowly get worse up here. Bills get more expensive and she stops working altogether, won't even get government assistance. I end up shouldering everything while she stays at home all day sitting on the couch. I can't speak at work because her cousin and father have ears all over which brings us to today, something I said at my job about her father got back to her which of course she took her family side. I had a complete mental breakdown which ended with holes in the way me throwing up and passing out on the bathroom floor. This finally got her out of the apartment we're in now for a few days which has been a godsend. I can't keep going like this. My health can't take it, I plan on going back to my hometown but I wanna know if anyone been in this situation who can provide advice or support