So guys, let me confess my sins to you. It's been a few years, but I used to hang out with this Chinese girls in uni. She was very cute. We studied together and so on. I had a crush on her, but I didn't really had the guts to do anything about it. Time goes on and runs into a legal problem. Apparently she got caught downloading a movie and then she called me in tears, hoping that I could solve the problem for her. Of course being the white knight that I was thought "yes, now I can prove myself to her!" So after a lengthily legal process, I actually managed to have the charges being dropped (don't even ask me how I did it, I still don't understand it). Of course she was super grateful. After the whole deal I walk her home, she gets a call and says "okay I'm almost there baby, see you soon". Being the naive guy that I was, I thought she was talking about a female friend or her sister or whatever. So I get to her door, and thought I get a hug ... she gave me hand shake. Which is weird since she hugged me before. She did invite me to dinner later actually, so that was cool (but of course a fraction of the money I saved her). So a week later or say, we had wanted to get together to study. But no response, nothing. I called her to ask her what's up, why she is at? Turns out, she was at her boyfriends house, specially she was calling me from his BED. And yeah, after that we never spoke again. So what did we learn from this guys? Don't be me. Go MGTOW. Saves you time and heart ache. Dont even bother with PUA if you think that will get you out of the matrix, just go straight to MGTOW.