I'll keep this short because I could go on and on. The problem I see with the world is that no one fights human nature, or understands what the Human Condition is. Often the shitty things people do are due to lack of willpower, or giving in to human nature. Someone cuts you off in traffic? It's their selfish nature that they weren't willing to fight to be a good dude.

It's this unwillingness to be uncomfortable or do something based on principal rather than feeling.

This is where it seems many problems come from, as far as I can tell. Honing in on the problem with dating culture, white knights, shitty attitudes, etc, with this human nature notion in mind, you can see it does have some substance. The specific thing that I want to mention in this regard is the way men act.

Most of what people are talking about here come down to men putting pussy on a pedestal. They can't fight the feeling of "I want pussy". No, maybe it's more accurate to say that they haven't even had the thought to fight it. I'm not sure.

I noticed this over the weekend. I went to a bar since it was my landlord/friend's birthday. I work nights and my schedule is wack so I typically don't, plus it's expensive and is boring usually. There's one friend of mine there that was hanging out with the classic hot girl. Only this hot girl is the type to just hang out around bars and works a dead end job, leads dudes on, gets 400 likes on her promiscuous Facebook pictures.

It turns out my friend is fucking WHIPPED by this bitch. Does shit for her, drives her places (even mentioned her being late and him turning around and driving 30 minutes round trip to get her). He is always ecstatic around her but I know she isn't interested and won't sleep with him. Also I found out she does meth and this night ended up ditching my friend to get coke. It's absolutely disgusting.

My other friend, on the same night, was VISIBLY "horny" and was very obviously trying to be physical with my landlords girlfriend. Dancing too close, making lude comments, etc. This went on all night, and around my landlord who was too drunk.

All I could feel was sick, secondhand embarrassment for both. How do these dudes not see how pathetic it is? How can they constantly think with their dick, to the point that they end up acting like a fucking cuck? I'm okay that I've only had sex with one woman if it means that I never do that shit.

Anyway, it seems to me that most dudes enable female behavior, and it comes down to a lack of willpower on their part. I can't understand why they do it to themselves but similar to a shitty job, there will always be the "next man up". Put your foot down? She'll just find someone who won't, especially considering it's so easy for them nowadays.

It bothers me a lot but I at least feel good knowing enough to just....not participate.