There is nothing "cynical" about asking what you can get out of a friendship. If you get emotional support out of it or someone you can trust enough to tell them your actual beliefs, you're getting a lot.
But what can you get out of a friendship with a female? Someone you can trust? Someone you could openly talk to without having to use filters? Someone who would support you if you’d hit rock bottom, need money or a place to sleep or whatever?
You can bet with 99% confidence that the answer to all of these questions is NO.
Females often say that men are too shallow and don’t care enough about a female’s inner values; and that this superficial fixation on a female’s sexuality would make them fear the dreaded “friend zone.” If they weren’t so sexist, their reasoning goes, they would be fine with being friends with a female without being allowed to fuck them.
But the thing is: more and more men hate women BECAUSE they care about their inner values!
Women are selfish, egocentric, hypergamous, hypocritical, cold, slutty, materialist, bitter and therefore they don’t have anything other to offer to men than sex. Men would be fine with an average-looking women if she had something else to offer, like being a warm, supportive, humorous person that can cook or something. But women don’t have all these qualities, so men, logically, just care about their bodies and, logically, don’t see much of a reason to be friends with them.
You also wouldn’t be friends with a MAN you can’t trust, who doesn’t support you, who doesn’t allow you to say what’s on your mind, who is intolerant and just wants you to give him stuff, a helping hand, support, etc.
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