have you ever noticed:

man watches porn and ends up not being able to be aroused by wife

woman bangs multiple guys before marriage and ends up not being able to be satisfied by husband

clearly both of these are the fault of the person who indulged, but society blames BOTH of these on men

if u dont desire your wife because of your porn use then society says ur a porn watching loser.. it doesn’t tell her she’s coming up short in comparison to porn stars

meanwhile a woman can bang the football team and then tell you you're not good enough in bed, as if she had no part in creating an inordinate affection or appetite within herself, physically, mentally, and emotionally

in society's eyes its your fault for not being able to "compete" with the last 20 guys she let defile her