I just ended a LTR of four years. Through blind luck I discovered MGTOW philosophy in the middle of the process. So much of it are ideas that I've had in the back of my mind for a while but reading your posts here and listening to videos on YouTube from sandman and Darius have really given me confidence that it is the only way to go. What has really struck me since the break-up is how much more peace of mind I have. Basically ever since puberty I've been basing my self-worth on who finds me attractive or not. I've been stuck in a cycle of either being in a relationship and limiting my potential for a girl and her requirements on my time and money or I've been single and beating myself up for not "having" someone. For the first time in my adult life I feel completely at peace. I am not held back by any other persons opinions, needs or demands. I am also not even slightly interested in meeting someone new and I don't give a shit whether people I meet are attracted to me or not. Do I want to be fit? Hell yes, but not for women. I want it because it feels good to be healthy. I realize now that although it feels warm and comfortable to be attached to a woman, it's nothing compared to the freedom and bliss of going my own way and finally being the only person plotting the course of my future. Thank you for the red pills Brothers.