Thoughts on pump & dumping an ex?

ForNowICanSee · 2019-04-10T07:09:06+00:00

I can see the appeal, especially if she was a hot ex and you both connected well. But...I wouldn't. Exes can get fucked. Fucking an ex is like telling her you forgive her bullshit and you're desperate imo.

flee_market · 2019-04-10T07:32:35+00:00

Sure if you want to get poundmetoo'd.

Astral-Projector · 2019-04-10T07:38:59+00:00

No, it's not. Stay away from exes, an ex is an ex for a reason even though its the best sex you ever had.

Chicks smell desperation and pussyslaying from miles away, she will use this on you. Been there, done that. Go B(lock)I(gnore)G(host) on her ass and find a new cumdumpster.

givenchyboy · 2019-04-10T07:36:26+00:00

Ive tried this with a gf I dated for 4 years. I told her I just wanted to be FWB a few years after we broke up and that I’d only come to her place and not sleep over. The only part she did not agree with was not being allowed at my place.. why? Because beep down she wanted commitment and aimed to do it by getting close with my parents again... like I’m not an idiot, I knew exactly what she was doing..

Kirby_gud_succ · 2019-04-10T08:03:55+00:00

I'm in the mgtow camp of just no sex or relationships period. The issue is how easy it.is for them to fuck you over. Like you could get pregnancy trapped or something or get an STD. Just not worth it.

Tonyb33 · 2019-04-10T08:09:34+00:00

My ex girlfriend of ten years recently was going to be in my city. Texted me and asked if she could buy me a beer for old times sake. Now bearing in mind that this girl was a train wreck who had caused me enormous stress and suffering, I told her best we do not meet. She was born on Friday 13th and in the last year of our relationship had a life crippling event every two weeks. I explained we were not good together and that I was superstitious and was from the best.

She rose to the bait what do you mean I am unlucky? Now here’s just a taste. The reason she was in contact was because I am an accountant and I helped her with her tax return to make her some money. She needed money because she was paying her brothers expenses whilst he came from Canada to the uk to give her a kidney transplant. On the initial tests they found blood in her brothers urine indicating bladder cancer. Now brother has to stay for bladder cancer treatment and cannot donate kidney. Bear in mind previously cousin had done same and he suddenly had brain hemorage.

nnote · 2019-04-10T07:16:06+00:00

When girls refer to each other as "my bitches" it's cringy as hell. Not much better when guys do the same.

I wouldn't have sex with any of my ex's. Talking like that is just handing power to women. Your conceding that they have all the power. An ex of mine would have to deserve me to get sex from me. They get pleasure from it also, not just men. I'll hold out for sex with someone who deserves it mutually with me. To have sex with an ex just hands the power right back to them unless they are the ones begging to come back, and usually they are an ex for a reason. Even if they begged I still wouldn't.

leemming · 2019-04-10T11:30:44+00:00

think about the risks VS rewards.

risks: pregnancy (-1pt), 18 years child support (-1pt), false accusations : lose your job (-1pt), lawyer fees (-1pt), jail time (-1pt), lose friends (-1pt) lose family (-1pt)

rewards: good sex with someone who knows how to please you? maybe? (+1pt)

ps: more information the woman has on you, more easily she can fuck you over. if you are willing to take the risks of messing with a woman, choose one who doens't know shit about your real life (real name, friends, job, family)

Maximum_Afternoon · 2019-04-10T13:16:48+00:00

I've done it... Took only a couple days before I was reminded why I was tired of her shit and noped out of there.

Mecha_Hobbit · 2019-04-10T15:05:55+00:00

What could go wrong? Amiright?

itookyomilk · 2019-04-14T22:33:16+00:00

only do it if she is the aggressor

kashmirkiikali · 2019-04-10T07:23:00+00:00

Don’t dehumanize another human being like that. If you’re so desperate for sex just jack off.

Title	Thoughts on pump & dumping an ex?
Author	Civicricer
Upvotes	2
Comments	27
Date	April 10, 2019 6:41 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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