Tips

Justacaveman444 · 2018-11-28T05:02:04+00:00

I shared this the other day from some psychology articles I read upon to deal with "loneliness".

1) Everyone is lonely from time to time. Even those in a relationship. This is why we get dragged into being a 3rd wheel with friends. Lonely. Is. Normal.

2) You have to learn to live with yourself. By yourself. Many people never do, and it's hard af, but it is the biggest gift you can receive. Even if you do it for a year, and that's it, learn to live alone. Learn to like you.

3) Instead of worrying about who is there for you, be there for a bro. Reach out to your bros and do something kind when you are feeling down. This is 3x rewarding as a bro showing up with beer.

[deleted] · 2018-11-28T07:45:09+00:00

I don't know bro. I do like the MGTOW philosophy but Monk Mode is too much for me. I date casually, meaning I have a woman with whom I have sex on a regular basis, and the occasional dinner and sleepover at my place; but that's just about it: no dating activities, we're not a couple, we don't talk about the future, we just hang out. And when she'll want to have "the talk" and discuss "where this is going", "what are we" and similar I know it will end, and I will find someone else to replace her.

Works for me.

TL;DR: You can have sex without having a romantic relationship.

marketing-issues · 2018-11-28T06:20:40+00:00

It's mostly genetic unfortunately.

I literally never get lonely. I work alone all day long and I absolutely love it.

But, if you're not wired that way, you gotta find some middle-ground.

Anyway, don't believe the all the mgtow hype. The vast majority of non-marriage relationships do not end up in legal disputes.

Captconnor2001 · 2018-11-28T14:25:14+00:00

Have you had one before? Do you know what it feels like to be alone while in a relationship? It's worse. When you are single and feeling lonely/bored, you can do whatever you want about it. When you are lonely/bored in a relationship, it is way more complicated. No thanks.

Title	Tips
Author	Captconnor2001
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	November 28, 2018 4:56 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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