How is one supposed to gain respect and value in communities which solely value young men on how they participate on the plantation, for example : which kind of gf or wife you have, how many you slept with, or how far are you good in hanging out with blue pilled fellas.

I say this because i met a guy on college. He is a down to earth guy, no muscles shit or what. The guy basically walked me through his business and he is fucking millionaire. But on campus he is nothing bc he doesn't do all the things i mentioned.

Almost all fellow guys disrespect him until they learn about his bank account.

How are we supposed to be valued by fellow men?