Awhile back I posted about my friend who was being drug through paternity court by his ex wife after several years after their relationship ended as she was claiming he was the father of her kid. I never updated you all on what happened so allow me to do so today.
The outcome of the court case ended in his favor. He was rather ecstatic about it, but I burst his bubble on it being a sure fired thing. I explained to him had he had any interaction with that child he very well could have been on the line for child support for a kid that wasn't his. I then gave him a second bit of advice, to turn around and sue his ex wife in small claims court for the money that he had to spend on a lawyer. The lawyer was cool so it was only a couple hundred. He also won that.
Here's the best part. Before the court case the judge had a bit of contempt for my friend, but after course he actually came up to him an apologized for allowing the case to proceed as far as it did. It was that open and shut that it wasn't his child. Even better she kept trying to get the courts to compel my friend to pay child support to the point where they called him up and told him if he doesn't get her under control they're going to have to arrest her (love the double standard of treatment there). He said with indignity "She's not my woman and I don't care if you do."
Saga doesn't end there. I'm sure there are some details I'm not privy to, but he ended up getting a restraining order on her because she was harassing him. She shows up on his property to try to get back together with him, he almost pulled out his handgun and blew her away, but kept his composure, he's in an apartment in a two apartment building, so she couldn't get in. He calls the police whom are corrupt as hell in our area, horrifically so, and the show up and don't arrest her. As I told my friend, if that situation was reverse you'd be in jail for the night and he said damn right I would. They eventually escorted her off the property, but she continues to contact him.
She's not trying to get back together with him and even her family is reaching out to my friend. This is the same family that kept telling her the entire relationship that my friend was a dead beat despite busting his ass, that she could do better, that she should leave him, I'm sure you've heard that story. Now her mother is pretending they didn't do any of that, but my friends found his balls and is calling her out on that.
Essentially I've been redpilling my friend on the perils of women and marriage. Not as bleak as some of you believe, but he's getting the picture. So much so that he's saying I'm bumbing him out about marriage and women. I tell him it's not my intention, I just don't want him to go through the same thing he did with his ex wife again, he dodged a bullet, he is lucky she was a cheating bitch, but she's screwed him up pretty badly.
Anyway, he had a "Nevek" moment when dealing with her family when he realized they only wanted to use him for resources. He felt rather sad by that, and we joked about how he went "Nevek must never find out about this." I think I've done quite a good job of helping him avoid thinking with his dick anymore.
Never stop trying to red pill your friends. You never know when it could save them from a life of misery.
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