Validation from women

2020-01-10T18:22:57+00:00

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hugaddiction · 2020-01-10T18:29:50+00:00

It feels good but it means nothing. It also can be misleading as much of what their values are based on is different from those of men.

Electronic_Record · 2020-01-10T18:46:46+00:00

veritas

2020-01-10T18:51:32+00:00

Talk is cheap. They can claim to support our values all they want, but if they're not willing to fight to get the laws changed, it's a meaningless gesture. So, to answer your question, it does nothing.

strongandhappy · 2020-01-10T18:40:58+00:00

I used to believe in mainstream feminism, so it's possible a part of me would appreciate prominent feminists/media/politicians admitting they've crossed lines, acted extremely hypocritically, adopted appalling tunnel vision, and engaged in scorched Earth politics. A real dialogue with Karen straughan or Janice fiamengo would be a start. Otherwise you can find any old rando to say any damn thing. The ones with the social mouthpiece have fucked the laws and destroyed the culture.

DangZagnut · 2020-01-10T18:57:06+00:00

Who cares what women think. Their "validation" means nothing. Women don't validate me, they don't even register on the dial, my squelch must be up to high.

MrCarepig · 2020-01-10T19:06:41+00:00

We tend to look at actions rather than words.

explosivebagel0224 · 2020-01-10T19:22:53+00:00

Despite what the guys here will tell you, it ALWAYS feels good to be validated. Now, of COURSE the goal of mgtow is to be able to live without needing validation, but it is undeniable that it gives many of us a feeling of acceptance when it feels like society is hostile towards us.

The caveat here is that, if a woman says it, many will likely not believe her and think she is either pretending to be concerned for her own validation or thinks she is concerned but could never understand.

Edit: As far as laws go, there is not an easy answer, as we are simply living in the inevitable result of a developed society. Winning the culture war would be the only long term solution rather than laws, but this seems unlikely given economic develop in western societies

Free_Of_Will · 2020-01-10T18:28:34+00:00

Rule 1 about fight club. You don't talk about fight club.

dizrupta · 2020-01-10T19:13:43+00:00

It does nothing. Talk is cheap

PrinceRaj53 · 2020-01-10T20:01:18+00:00

Does it help, hurt or do nothing to hear validation from women that your experiences are real and that they disagree with how you/men are being treated by other women/media/society

I don't care what women say, I like to see what they do. Because I know where to look for the difference and the truth.

I will go with u/DangZagnut here. Who cares what women think anyway? Just like no one here cares if a random woman, you, think that this sub is for incels(I am sure you do, because something's gotta make you resort to a mental safe space when you see things which don't resonate with how you feel, I guess?).

Women don't validate men. They validate betas who need women to fill the empty space that their mommy forgot to fill or failed to fill, or the beliefs that high school nerds tend to use, like "love", "romance" and "soul mate". Wait, I never tried banging a soul, is that even possible?

Women don't validate me lol. They are simply on my speed dial while I think about whether to remove this number or keep it for another bang with her when I am bored. Simple as that.

Honestly speaking, could care less about some random woman carrying a sign declaring "Oh look at me, I am sooooo different from other girlzzz I am tooooooootally not like that, tee hee". I mean, virtue signalling is not something new. Its rampant in the Mens Rights movement. So, you for example, if you say this, you are not different. Lots of women did this before you and lots will do after you because talk is cheap and anyone can do it. Virtue signalling helps in the pedestalization of women, so why wouldn't women do that?

Its like a meaningless gesture, just like how I make some winking/face making gestures when I pass some cute child to make it laugh while getting a smile from their parents or when I sit in the park in the morning during my morning walk and I node when I see some known face among others.

So to answer your question, nope, it does nothing.

If a man is finding some form of "acceptance" in that, then he needs to work on himself because he is so infested with female validation that a simple gesture is making him feel validated and accepted. It also speak volumes about the disposable state of men, but it was always like this in the past as well. "Women good men worst" is not something new, its from the 18's.

What kind of laws/bills/social changes would you like to see women support or follow?

None. Because it wont help men anyway. As I said, talk is cheap and virtue signalling is everywhere. Even if some rules got changed, the only difference it will make is the frequency of women using the law to benefit themselves (which is done by almost all women) will be a little bit lower. Just a Little Bit. It can not reform the evolutionary female nature that all women have, as women have gone through thousands of years of evolution and programming, as they are humans, am I right or am I right?

i believe....I believe.... I believe

I get it. I understand. But I also believe santa clause should be real and should give free gifts in all countries. But my belief is not going to make him real. Again, am I right or am I right?

Gabo9718 · 2020-01-10T18:27:33+00:00

Women’s words have no meaning here, be a hole or be gone thot.

Title	Validation from women
Author	stonernerdgirl
Upvotes	1
Comments	12
Date	January 10, 2020 6:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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