I feel like I lied (f26) to my bf (m27)

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I love my boyfriend so much. I went through a hard time about 4 years ago when I was sexually assaulted. I slept around a bit after looking for someone to be with. I very much regret it now. My boyfriend hasn’t taken too kindly to my past. He loves me still but it makes him upset to hear the other people I’ve been with. I have really bad OCD as well and need to confess/guilt. I feel like I lied because he asked me if I have been safe in the past sexually. I told him yes (all of my tests are clean and never had an STD) but one time like 3 years ago I had unprotected sex, got tested right after. I’ve had multiple tests since and never had anything or shown symptoms otherwise. Was this a lie? Do I have to tell him the details that one time three years ago I had unprotected sex??