My parents often tell me that getting married was the best thing they ever did in their lives, but somehow I think this is complete bull shit. I often see them arguing with each other. I haven’t yet seen it to the point where it gets super violent but it still happens. Even when they first met I feel like there was tension. My dad smoked lots of cigarettes and my mom kind of forced him to quit. I still feel like my dad still holds a grudge against her for making him go through with this. Even now my dad keeps secrets from my mom. When he goes and orders a pizza, he secretly visits a bar to go and have a few drinks because he knows my mom wouldn’t let him drive around if he did. When my mom isn’t around, he smokes weed with my brother and I because he knows that she wouldn’t approve. Although my parents have been married for 23 years, I think my dad has really been a slave in his relationship only putting up with my mom for the sake of my brother and I. And for some reason he and my mom still tell me that getting married is the best decision they ever made. Do you guys think my parents are telling the truth or do you think they just want me to get married so they can have grand kids? Please let me know your thoughts. :)