I had an argument with my gf last nite. We basically got on the subject of black women and their bad choices in men. She basically stated that society has told bw that they should go after men of lower quality. I stated that it wasn't and that black women overlook a good man by choice until they have had kids and been used up by what we call Pookey and Ray Ray . I think her statement was the dumbest thing I ever heard. What do you think?