A woman being raped is the equivalent to a man...?

I ask this because when I hear of women being raped what I really think is that women really only have their pussy to give and not much else. So when a person takes that away from them it's the epitome of taking their power. Personally I think a woman being raped is the equivalent of a man having his possessions seized, name tarnished, business destroyed etc.

Fill in what you honestly think rape is equivalent to.