When we think of a "masculine" man, we think of an very ripped/muscular man who is confident, strong, assertive, dominating, and that may or may not be a stereotypical asshole "all muscles but no brains" jock. Is that really are there is to masculinity though? Does that mean that everyone who doesn't fit the criteria is an effeminate, submissive and weak beta male, or is there actually more to the story?

I personally used to be very shy, socially awkward, submissive and nerdy/geeky, i am still nerdy/geeky and introverted but not socially awkward, shy, or submissive any longer. Over the years i have gotten very stoic, and now i don't take shit from anyone anymore, i don't let anyone use me or take advantage of me, i don't seek validation from anyone and i stand my ground and stand up for my beliefs. I would rather stick a fucking jackhammer up my ass than donate to an e-thot. Am i still considered an weak effeminate beta?