What should I do?

tower-rounder · 2019-08-24T20:11:49+00:00

This really feels like a troll post.

TL;DR; Yes, just delete her. Your gut is guiding you properly

originaldutchcow · 2019-08-24T20:05:59+00:00

'i have been friends with this girl...'

'friends... Girl...'

You will never get her. She will never love you. Dont wait for the sloppy seconds. Ghost and move on.

Edit : sorry for sounding rude. But at this time it may look like one of the harder decisions in your life. In a few years from now, this day will be remembered as just another saturday.

helpmepls103 · 2019-08-24T20:09:04+00:00

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PrinceRaj53 · 2019-08-24T20:24:55+00:00

Friend, first of all, don't come to mgtow unless you are comfortable with brutal honesty. We don't sugercoat anything with regards to female nature and I assure you, your feelings have zero value with regards to your question. What I mean is : what you feel about the truth is irrelevant to us. Don't say I didn't tell you before.

Now lets see.

Since you are new to redpill as you said, some things will take time to internalize.

friends" with this girl (24F) for almost 3 years now that I met through work in my previous field yet we remained friends after we both left that industry

You don't get female friends. You get female acquaintances.

feel really close with her on an intimate level, but we have never had sex

So, I am not getting it. You were in the friendzone? So you liked her for 3 years and remained friends and never escalated it to sex?

Guess what? Its good that you did not have sex while you were working with her. Don't shit where you eat : I am sure you are familiar with this.

But you could have escalated after you two were not working together. Single moms are not bad for a quick pump & dump. So why not?

Lets see her red flags :

1) She's a single mom (seriously? You are a westerner. You should know this better than me. Its a big red flag itself)

2) too much self obsessed

3)too much "travelling" and "IG/Snapchat"

My question is, should I delete her?

Of course. Hard next and move on. A redpilled MGTOW developing feelings for a woman, that too a single mom? C'mon now.

You are her friendzoned betabux backup since years mate. Don't just soft next, HARD NEXT her.

I know it may sound rude,

This is a mgtow sub. Here, logical and rational statements matter. Feelings does not.

I really don't want to offend her

Don't care about how women feel. Care about yourself. Why do you care about her?

Stop caring about women and their feelz. Life will be much better.

Stop thinking from your dick and start using your head.

atiqLegend13 · 2019-08-24T20:21:05+00:00

Right now ur her beta orbiter. Run as far as possible.

801735 · 2019-08-24T20:13:53+00:00

My question is, should I delete her?

Well? Should you? Will you?

Colvin76 · 2019-08-24T20:22:47+00:00

This has to be a troll post

SlainFunicle · 2019-08-24T20:38:37+00:00

Don't know if he is serious are fucking around but single mother red flag, you hanging around for 3 years wtf, if you don't fuck her in the first week bounce if you think she ain't fucking someone you are deadly mistaken go get some prostitute are multiple fwb

bonethugsgoat · 2019-08-24T20:40:24+00:00

My man said he don't wanna offend her lmao, what in the actual fuck? No wonder men are being walked all over by women these days.

strongandhappy · 2019-08-24T21:07:15+00:00

The other comments are more mgtow/redpill but if you're just starting out you can prove it to yourself by reducing your effort to her level or less. Don't volunteer anything, don't initiate contact, DON'T BE AN EMOTIONAL TAMPON TO ANYONE EVER. She'll be gone in a week, month tops. She's got too many people waiting to clean her spills.

Title	What should I do?
Author	helpmepls103
Upvotes	1
Comments	21
Date	August 24, 2019 8:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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