Basically, put it this way:

I feel conservatives(especially the cultural kind) are currently bitching and moaning so hard about the current emasculation of men so much, that in reality what they are doing is not helping men, but rather suppressing them

If conservatives were truly against feminism, wouldn't they allow men to invest more into their hobbies, budgets, housing and whatnot, instead of forcing so much marriage upon thousands of insecure and misguided men? Instead they want for men to be disposable utilities and continue serving women as their commanders. They don't want men to really have their own platform where all men can unite (MGTOW has even been attacked by some in the manosphere).

And no I am not saying MGTOW is a liberal philosophy, it may be in terms of liberating yourself from the plantation of having to serve women, but definitely not one by modern standards.

So, as I said the question above, why do they do this? Why shame men who don't get married at all for? So that the men can be abused by the courts?

Now, not all conservatives may be doing this, just the mainstream ones anyways.

But nonetheless, until the court system is fixed, why keep on continuing to encourage marriage just for the sake suppressing men's issues?