Why do I have this craving?

peguy2000 · 2019-07-31T13:57:55+00:00

Well you need a mutual intrests to have friends that stay for a lifetime.

Like if you were in the same millitary group, played in the same football team etc and you gotta spend time with them in your freetime aswell or go to places

Id suggest finding something you enjoy, like if you like playing games you can try to find a group/team, if you like playing dnd theres dnd meeting groups. Look around in your area and attend these.

We as men gotta earn friends, we dont get anything served like women

Good luck my friend

DangZagnut · 2019-07-31T14:03:02+00:00

I do experience the primordial desire to love and be loved.

You need to identify what makes you want that, and why you do.

Friends worship pussy and give up their friends. Don't worry, they'll be divorced soon.

MothMonsterMan79 · 2019-07-31T14:00:28+00:00

Just remember this: Girlfriends, then wives, are 99.99999999999% TEMPORARY. Real friends are forever. When your friends break up, they'll come crying back to you about how the bitch dumped them. If you guys are good friends, support them and be there for them. Some will wise up. If they keep doing the same stupid shit over and over, then you can't help them.

AG-Blyat · 2019-07-31T14:06:04+00:00

I used to be like that... I'm 19, before I had only one friend and since he got aloof with his new girlfriend, I became a loner (which I don't mind, given the fact I'm an introvert). 2 years ago I met my new best friend forever through Omegle. He's currently 28, a hardcore gamer, very caring and genuine towards loners like himself from the years ago. We have a tiny group of loyal friendos who skype call each Friday, play games or just talk. Having a good time here and there is really nice and I like it this way. We also text each other every second day, sharing some of those fresh memes and stories, etc.

If you're interested, we'd love to have a new friend as yourself😊

MarkusOber · 2019-07-31T14:24:06+00:00

I know what you mean. and it is frustrating. You look at the good-looking people who are superficial and you know you wouldn't want to be like that and yet you envy the fact that they have a lot of friends and their desired and valued. And it's paradoxical what are they valued for? Just their looks? Their lives seem exciting and full of laughter and fun.

At the heart of all this are two fundamental facts.

everyone in this world is really alone
life is unfair

For some people life comes easier in certain regards. You may have to work at it more or work at something different. Don't work on going out to a bar and having 20 friends around you, but work at cultivating your path. The first step is to love yourself, and in order to do that you have to find what makes you unique, what you like, what you believe before you can you seek out somebody else. in your post you only pointed out the negatives about you so I don't think you've learned or you've really come to appreciate what's positive and special about you.

You may have to walk a lonely path for a while. But trust me when I say it is better than running into the arms of a woman who superficially gives you what you think you need. There are tons of women who won't stroke men's egos just to pick their pocket.

perfect__zero · 2019-07-31T15:10:51+00:00

At the end of the day, your 'friends' are the 'ordinary' people who will end up with the monumental life task of coming to terms with the Sisyphean nature of cuckboy life trying to fill an empty Olympic sized swimming pool by pouring a cup of water in it for the next 50 years - that being their Disney Princess's insatiable needs and wants.

Having a sense of achievement is a good way to restore some value in yourself and attract some recognition (if appeal is what you're really looking for). Set achievable goals that you know you can accomplish or aim to achieve mastery at something (e.g. playing a musical instrument).

Title	Why do I have this craving?
Author	Voyager910
Upvotes	10
Comments	13
Date	July 31, 2019 1:51 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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