Firstly this isn't a negative post. Giving up -> i.e: On women. Before I get to that, this means my time and energy can and will be directed into creating a business.

I would like to start off saying that seeking out companionship in this life is nothing to be ashamed about. We are after all social creatures. The idea of having a good solid mate and best friend fits our very core.

Next I would like address typical non MGTOW criticism on this type of post. The notion being that losers quit and winners continue no matter the odds towards success. The thing is, I'm not 18, but close to 40. I've been aware of females and the need for one for roughly 25 years.

Too I would like to point out, I'm in no way incel or foreveralone. I've had girlfriends, some of which were fairly attractive. I was married for a decade. Even up to very recently I was using dating sites with a moderate degree of success. This post isn't about having no options.

THE QUALITY OF WOMEN OUT THERE DON'T MEET MY EXPECTATIONS.

This is really what it is about, but there is a little more to it too.

Let me just go ahead and break it to you. My expectations, incase you're wondering - Aren't something out of a science fiction movie. I literally (and I mean LITERALLY) just want a woman who is fairly attractive, honest and normal. I realise normal is subjective - so let me also define this more clearly -> Not someone with too many major life hangup, someone who can keep a job, someone who is fun to be around, spontaneous. JUST FUCKING NORMAL.

If you think I'm giving up because such women don't exist - You're wrong. I believe they do exist. Unicorns (or close enough) are a reality. To claim good women don't exist would be wrong. The problem is they are rare.

It too would be an over simplification to just say "Oh well they're too hard to find".

And here lies the heart of the problem and the real reason I'm giving up - Too little opportunities to meet the right woman.

The way society these days is structured it has become increasingly difficult (and it could also be my age) to just get into position to be able to start any interactions.

I would say 70% of people spend 70% of their social time drinking. At my age the idea of approaching random girls with a wingman isn't really viable. Especially not in central Europe. People tend to go out already networked and work from there. I don't have such networks.

Randomly approaching women in the wild I've done before, with low-moderate success. Problem is if you consider the time utilization to such an approach. You might spend 95% of your time just camping, for that little sliver of spark. When these slivers go bad -> You also hit a point where "Fuck this shit".

Dating sites, I know are a joke, but they have produced at least some results for me, as shit as what they are.

So my point is, to find a good women requires an insane amount of statistical luck. Or mastery of the social system.

Just going about it in the regular way, will most likely end up in disappointment, the way society is setup. So hence - Fuck that shit.