First, I'd just like to point out that my english is bad.

From time to time some threads about incels will pop and I usually notice plenty of hate and judgements about them in the comments and I can't help but wonder why?

Incels never got into a relationship, they never even got close to one. They don't know the female nature very well because they never been in a relationship with one. Add the fact that women in society are always put on a massive pedastral by the whole society and medias usually portray them as some awesome creature that will make the life whole and exciting. Society also love to bash virgin males and portray them as losers who should kill themselvers for sole reason that they cannot get any pussy. Sex is everywhere in on TV, the internet, even the radio or when you walk outside, we are constantly reminded of sex and how much awesome it is and how much literally everybody do it all the time. So, if you never got access to sex, chances are high that you think it is incredibly awesome and you must be a loser or a defective human.

Now, because of the rise of feminism, less and less males have access to sex nowadays because women will only choose chads, aka top tier alpha males. This is sexual liberation for women and they can afford to pick only the best males to mate. It just makes sense for them and quite frankly if there was a constant flow of pussies constantly throwing themselves at me, then I would probably have sex with only the most attractive ones so it's hard to blame them. This behavior contributes to the 80/20 rule and plenty of studies suggest it is indeed true, especially now with the rise of dating apps. This leads to the fact and more and more males, usually the bottom tier ones with bad genetics (facially ugly, short, handicapped, mentally ill or socially awkward) will never experience anything romantic with women. They will most likely live a lonely life with the constant reminder from society that sex and relationships are the most awesome thing ever and everyone is at it. It's like everybody since birth told you all the fucking time how much eating cake is the best thing ever and how much it would literally change your life for the best forever but you are allergic to cakes. You never got to eat cake but you damn know how good it must be but no one ever told them that the cake is poison and it would destroy them. They don't know, they can't know until they research deep about cakes (MGTOW) or eat one.

There will most likely be more and more incels in the future and we should not shame them or throw them under the bus. It's totally normal for them feel depressed and angry about their lack of relationship because for their whole people told them that they suck if they can't get one. Not everybody is going to stumble on some good MGTOW materials and their eyes will remain closed until they experience women first hand. At this point they'll realize it by themselves. It's easy to call them losers but you are just as worst as women who hate and utterly despise beta males if you do. It's better to point them in the right direction rather than shame them. Solidarity between males need to be stronger then ever.

Edit : typos