Let me add one caveat first. DESIREABLE women don't want commitment. Undesireable wall hitters and single mothers do, sure.

I've noticed a trend with women I've dated or hung around with lately. Women between 20-30(desireables) do not want commitment. I've brought it up to many women in bars and they cringe at the idea of marriage..... But they say I would like to be married 'one day.' it's almost synonymous with the when I've expired I want commitment theme we talk about.

Most of them even cringe when I bring up being in a committed relationship (not even marriage.) I often probe them and flatter their egos and ask how many guys they are dating. Guess what, it's NEVER only one.

Think about it though. When you're desireables, attractive and under 30, being committed is a NEGATIVE for women.

Why's it negative? Well here are the reasons I've gathered.

  1. You have to be a good person. You have to be responsible and accountable. If you don't have to, why do it? Being honorable takes work and isn't instant gratification.

  2. You get more 'perks' and leverage by running multiple men against each other. If one man asks for respect and mutual effort, that takes work. Why do that when you can boot up fb or tinder.

  3. It's just more tingles.

Men like to boast that we are the gate keepers of commitment and women gate keepers of sex. The difference is that men want sex and women don't want commitment. So women hold all the cards.

Most of the time I see a man and woman interacting it's the MAN who is pushing for commitment. Trying to barter his self respect in hoping that she will only fuck him. He knows that If he doesn't push for commitment he's going to be forced to share.

Men can think all they want that they have leverage by controlling commitment but they don't. Any woman you would want to commitment to is not going to commit. It's too good of a deal for her right now to do so.

The only women who will commit are the undesireable expiring ones because they have no other choice. If you get those women to commit you still lose.

Men lose no matter what in the dating relationship game. The best outcome you can hope for is a little bit of fun, but is that worth the effort?