Hello, it's my first post here and since you seems like one of few rational subs on reddit I have some questions about becoming a better self. I would like you to think about this post as a plea for life advices. What can I do to have a better life? Are my actions right?

- So first, I am a 23yo civil engineering student, I've done my Eng. diploma a month ago and I am working in my field for almost a year. I give only 50% at work. Because of my contract of employment I cannot receive any bonus from the work i do (i get paid depending on how many hours I made because I need to have a flexible schedule (I still study for M.Sc of Eng. ))

- I am from Poland so I tryng to self-taught myself Swedish and German. I made TOELF certificate last year 105/120. I want to emigrate in future, because salary and living isn't great here. I was learning Swedish for a 1.5 year to get to swedish university, but because of weird time of diploma defense im my university, i couldn't get right documents for it. So I decided to further my knowledge in Swedish because I already can read book in swedish with a little help of dictionary.

- The rest of 50% time at work I dedicate to learning languages, thats why I am able to learn so easily.

- I work-out regularly, eat healthy and try to keep myself motivated.

- It may be the most controversional on this sub but I am with a girl from my degree. I don't know if it will last long becauce I decided that it's time for me being in power of relationship. I am not an idiot and I would NEVER get married or have children. And if I ever become an idiot and want to have marriage, i would DEFINITELY get a prenup.

That all about my background, are my actions right?

My little thoughts on relationships if you are curious. When I was 18-20 I was with girl, I didn't care about her, was doing what i wanted when i wanted. I didn't care about her emotions and outbreaks. I flirted with other women, I was on a trip with friend abroad when I shared bed (only sleep, there was no sex) with a female fried and my girlfriend knew of it. And my girlfriend still was doing everything what i wanted, was willing to have sex, was loving etc etc. I broke with her because she dropped of every university she attended, and I WON'T ever in my life support a women with my money. Later on, a year ago I decided that i will try something more serious, pay attention to my girlfriend etc. and now my girlfriend more often make me miserable than good. So here I am on this sub.

Hello MGTOW, sorry for my bad writing and bad english, I hope that you will accept me to your community