First off, I just wanted to thank this sub. Its done more for me than you all could know. I found MGTOW about 3 months ago after coming out of a 2 n half year relationship feeling manipulated, pathetic, and depressed. I was a simp my whole teenage and young adult life. Told by both women and men that females are to be praised, respected, honoured...the same old bullshit. And i bought into it fully. Desperately looking for female validation. Im not the worst looking guy and I had a fair amount of girlfriends thru high school and college, all ended with me being burned and humiliated. The last breakup was the last straw for me.
I spent the first few months reading the stories by fellow Mgtow's and i couldnt believe how much i could relate. Anyway it all clicked for me when i realized, when it came down to it, the reason i put up with so much hurt and bullshit was for the 'possibility of sex.' For me, this was a massive epiphany. Like a 100ton brick off my shoulders. Thinking back on all the time, money, and energy i wasted for the possibility of sex. Breaking away from this mindset was incredibly freeing. But now i find myself extremely angry. Not just at females but this whole gynocentric society.
To cut to the point, I want nothing to do with women now and I treat the ones I do come across like trash. In all honesty the worse i treat them the more free i feel. Its like a drug. To go against everything I was told to believe.. its like a high. But i am angry all the time and i don't want to remain in this red pill rage. I want to move forward, where i simply feel nothing towards females. Where i find satisfaction in my accomplishments for no one but myself.
I am doing my best to keep myself occupied.I am going to school full time and work 4 days a week. I lift weights about 5 days a week and have started to teach myself the guitar. If any of you, who have gone through this phase have any advice on how to move progressively and quickly thru it, it will be much appreciated.
[–]DangZagnut12 points13 points14 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]8017357 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Heraklines6 points7 points8 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]deathtocontrollers4 points5 points6 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]mk7point4md2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]user_miki2 points3 points4 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]jacketguy1 point2 points3 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]yooshio0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]mvlock0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]eltonl0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]Kittykittymeowmeow_0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MycroftHolmesBoy0 points1 point2 points (0 children) | Copy Link