She may compare you to the others. She may tell you that you're amazing. She may tell you that you're unlike any guy that she's ever been with before. She doesn't mean it. Not one of them will ever mean it. If you're staying in bed after that fateful night, not wanting to move or interact with the world. Nothing will have changed for her, in less than a month she will be talking to someone else and you will be left wondering what was so wrong with you. Don't bother anymore, save yourself the pain. Love yourself, not a charlatan.