I discovered this way of thinking today... Recently split with my g/f of 2 and a half years... Prior to that I was married and have a 12 year old son.

Anyway, I've just started being a more functional human being, by doing productive things to work through depression. I'm not too concerned about the depression anymore because I know that I'll work through it... MEANWHILE; here is my current life circumstances:

I've been having casual sex with a few different women... None of which expect (I think/thought) anything beyond this because historically I'm impulsive and reckless.

Lady 1, we're legitimately friends, she used to be my bartender when I was still with my most recent ex, she has 3 kids and spends her babysitting hours are spent drinking excessively and doing cocaine. Hooked up once on one of the two cocaine nights.

Lady 2 I actively recognize as problematic. We've had sex on a couple of different occasions, but I'm pretty sure that she's trying to engage my emotions by ignoring me because she had a really good time (I "dated" her for 2 weeks when I was 15 [no sex] and she "cheated on me"

Lady 3 was a really good friend after my divorce that encouraged me to pursue my passion for writing (I met her right after I got divorced, and we never fucked)... But recently she now lives a 2 minute drive from my home so we've been banging. The only caveat that she's given me is that if I intend to pursue things beyond what they currently are, that I see a therapist (realistically I should, regardless of this situation)

So with all that said, I'd appreciate some objective advice on how to approach this situation. I have an excessively high libido, likely because of adolescent traumatic brain injury, plus the fact that I'm on a low carb diet (which has increased my libido even more). I just don't know how to navigate the situation of when/who I should be banging versus when it serves me best to not.

Seriously, any outside perspective is appreciated. R r/MGTOW 's ideology doesn't have logical dialogue backing their philosophy