Hey mgtow2, I'm 15 yo, and I've been lurking in mgtow communities for a couple months now. I've been watching a lot of tfm videos as of late, and find myself agreeing with a lot of what he says. I have some questions for the mgtow community, and would like some input. :)

  1. Why do many mgtow communities such as the og r/MGTOW sound so toxic, biased, and bitter against the female gender. I don't want to jump to assumptions, but it sounds like many of them are incels, or something similar. The men once rejected by women now trying to better themselves to "show those bitches." It seems incredibly childish, and that's coming from a guy not much older than a child. I'm not saying all mgtow communities are like this, for instance this mgtow community doesn't seem bitter from what I've observed, but a lot of men seem to think with a negative stigma towards women, when that woman could potentially be the nicest person on the planet.

  2. I can see the financial benefits of staying away from marriage, even with my limited knowledge on the subject. My question to you who have forgone marriage for MGTOW is: how are your mindset and emotional levels on a day to day basis compared to when you were married or in a relationship? Do you have more buddies you hang out with, or do you relish the space around you? Do you ever wish there was someone you could love in a romantic way to be with you?

  3. What has changed before and after mgtow? Has your life improved, or are you on forums constantly for self validation with the absence of a spouse?

tldr:

  1. Are a lot of toxic mgtow communities rejected men or incels?
  2. What is your emotional and mental state after mgtow without a relationship and what do you fill that void with?
  3. Has life improved or do you seek constant validation from others within the community?

I'd appreciate any answers you have for me, and I'm looking forward to seeing your opinions! :)