Should monk mode be permanent?

reduction-deduction · 2018-08-05T08:24:43+00:00

The term monk annoys so fucking much. I mean, we are MGTOW and not monks. After all, going your own way implies that you abstract yourself from the binds of women and what the society expects you to do.

If your question is whether you SHOULD be Going Your Own Way permanently, then it is up to you. Who knows, maybe you will find your unicorn and actually settle down(i dont mean marriage or having kids).

Go after utility, if something benefits you, then do it :D

MTP2148 · 2018-08-07T23:11:03+00:00

For me it is. You have to make your own decisions.

vetiarvind · 2018-08-07T16:26:09+00:00

If you want to be monk forever, just do it. There's no reason to chase women unless you're compelled to. If you can remain happy without women, more power to you! You're in this sub, so you've clearly got more awareness than the average bloke out there. I can assure you that there are 0 negative effects due to celibacy. (if you choose that route instead of the ONS\PnD rotute)

If you find a woman you like, you'll probably try to come out of your monk mode yourself and try to court\seduce her. Nothing wrong with that, so long as you don't end up marrying her if you're in a feminist country. If you don't find a woman, more power to you again.

MGTOW-Balance · 2018-08-07T01:54:32+00:00

i would say that this is something that's not even worth stressing over

if you wanna fuck a chick or two just do it, then resume your life as you want

there is no hard-set rule that you have to be like this, this, this, and that

and that's why it's YOUR way

JamesLucratif · 2018-08-06T18:59:23+00:00

I just think if people are gonna be monks than they need to keep their hands off the keyboard warrioring and leave that to the dungeons and dragons. Original mgtow mods about to lose their jobs because it's fucking ridiculous

Like go your own way if you're going your own way. Stop trying to dictate other people. You know I can understand just completely hating women TRUST ME I can understand. That's why incel boards are getting popular. If you wanna help out other men. Help out other men. God knows we need it. If you just wanna be left the fuck alone, I totally get that as well and be a monk.

I just hate these God damn American psycho red pill pigs who are just asking for trouble starting shit with men who got nothing to lose just to make their dicks feel larger. It's like are you TRYING to be worse than a woman?

car23975 · 2018-08-06T05:33:34+00:00

If you got a major urge then do it. I used to have the urge but know nothing has changed and won’t. Things will change when our system changes for the better, not for the worse. Chances of that happening our slim if we fail on the midterms.

neoreeves · 2018-08-06T01:18:28+00:00

I guess for some it might not be permanent. I became a MGTOW because

I don't support what kind of treatment women gets from law compared to men and it's becoming worse every day.
Another reason is that society blames me for everything "If I cheat, I must be punished, if my wife cheats me, I must've done something wrong".
Don't like the idea of women getting half of my stuff and my house
I want to be able to choose if I want to pay child support and I don't want to be forced to pay for a child which is not mine.
I don't want to pay alimony for a healthy woman who has total condition to get a job and is able provide for herself

Of course I wanted to get married and have kids, I dream about teaching my kids things I know, like play the guitar, speak another language, help at school, self protection and so on, but today it's a high risk and I WILL leave this dream behing because I don't want to be slave of a pussy.

Turns out that being a MGTOW made me find other things that make me happy. Tomorrow I'll start archery classes, I'm studying a lot to put other plans in practice... Maybe if society finds its way and law changes (with real life situations as proof), I MIGHT think IF I WANT to go get married and have kids (I won't make any promises)

I'm 24 too

FI-REman_GMOW · 2018-08-05T20:49:18+00:00

I got a realistic TPE sex doll recently, and she will keep quiet and let me touch her boobs while we watch Netflix. It's the ideal girlfriend experience.

--Edog-- · 2018-08-05T19:37:11+00:00

Most women look at men as a source of money, labor, and status. I wished they loved us the same way we love them, but they don't. So act accordingly. Don't screw around with women you have feelz for. Be prepared to walk away at a monent's notice.

chrisdidwht · 2018-08-05T18:08:45+00:00

I kind if went monk mode when i was 23. When i turned 24 i became a player. Been pursuing my goals and smashing pussy along the way ever since and loving it. im 26 now. Enjoy yourself my guy. Just be careful and alwYs put yourself first.

re_all · 2018-08-05T14:53:14+00:00

If current times has taught us anything; it has taught us this =

"Any association with women is dangerous; even walking away from women is dangerous, but not as much."

For evidence; I offer these examples.

Bill Cosby = Doesn't matter how much time has passed; a vindictive woman can still get you in serious trouble.

Harvey Weinstein = Doesn't matter if the acts were consensual, and mutually beneficial; if she gets vindictive and wants attention, she can cry rape and you'll be roasted on a spit by social media, if not the courts of law

Walking away = You get roasted on a spit by the hypocrisy of social media. Wasn't she a "strong independent woman who didn't need no man?"

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In short; any association or interaction with women is dangerous and risky. You take a gamble every single time. Do not let anyone tell you otherwise.

For the instance of Cosby and Weinstein, I will bet they are richer, and more powerful than most of the male reddit users. And if they can fall, even with money and lawyers at their fingertips, why do average men think they can do better?

This is not to say "never associate with women" this is to remind you of the risk/benefit analysis of the entire equation. Make your own choices, but do not be lulled into any sense of security.

FemaleIsEasyMode · 2018-08-05T13:57:55+00:00

Time to try hook up culture. Write up an AWALT list/chart before dating. After each encounter, consult your list/chart and see how many points were checked (ie. entitled to your money or have you pay for everything, on their phone all the time, etc). Keep yourself grounded in reality and see if you are being used as a resource.

LittleGanymede · 2018-08-05T11:51:01+00:00

Just protect yourself. Maybe goddamn sure at least get a Yes at some point before you ever touch her. Hell if you need to have her sign a simple contract before sex. If she is in a position to have sex with you then shee shouldn't have a huge problem signing a contract even if it will be a mood killer/changer in the moment.

And most importantly, besides the obvious use a condom, is be willing to drop her in a second if she gives you a hard time at all or tries to play hard to get. If she doesn't say yes, say goodnight. Tell her you respect her boundries and leave. Kill her with kindness, respect and consideration, then ghost her ass.

BlaisePascal1123 · 2018-08-05T11:32:09+00:00

Women have not changed. Sex is still amazing. Have sex with women, but don't involve yourself in any other way. Boom.

vito670 · 2018-08-05T08:52:32+00:00

no women have not changed , they been women for several thousand years now , you just haven't had sex in a while and that why you try to convince yourself that something is changing , if it is just sex you need try a professional or buy a sex doll or something , if you are looking for a relationship then yeah you gonna have to break the monk thing , but in my experience after you get red pilled it's impossible to have a 'normal' relationship , not in the west at least

footloosemonk · 2018-08-05T08:34:02+00:00

It is all about having a control over the basic urges. So that you could acquaint yourself to walking away from an irresistible deal.

Ripsaw1990 · 2018-08-05T08:30:26+00:00

youre playing with fire anytime you fuck a girl. I do it but just gotta have walls man, they have strong neurological affects on us

avtarius · 2018-08-09T09:25:55+00:00

You can do whatever you want, just don't introduce hostile elements into your sanctuary.

Title	Should monk mode be permanent?
Author	Sumo94
Upvotes	14
Comments	29
Date	August 5, 2018 8:18 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW2
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