Simple mind

VanDriver1 · 2019-05-27T14:45:37+00:00

How did you find out the kids mother called you this? Did the kid tell you? If they did, on some level they trust you. On some level they want another opinion. On some level they don't want to be put in the middle. On some level they respect you. That is a lot.

What if some arbitrary person on the street said this about you? how are you recating differently because your ex said it. I question you statement that it doesn't bother you that your ex called you this. They want to see how you react and you are showing them that you are taking an intellectual, thoughtful, measured, caring, approach. You might take the approach that people will call people names and you can teach them that this will happen to them and teach them how they can respond when it happens to them. The best lesson are the ones where they watch how someone they respect reacts. You can tell them that their mother didn't mean it. That she was/is angry. That they should respect her even though she misspoke. Your not simple minded. Words hurt people.

Regarding your goals. You can do anything that you want. don't judge your life by comparing your accomplishments by others accomplishments.

HatemTommy · 2019-05-27T14:49:42+00:00

Women go way out of their way to alienate the father when they talk to their kids, they lie, badmouth, manipulates and deceive if they have to. If that pissed you off, it's because you'd have to ask yourself "what triggered me, did she hot the nail on the head, did I say it do dumb things and she's using them against me? Etc" you have to be brutally honest because no matter what the answers are, the more brutally honest you are with yourself, the more intelligent and corrective your behavior will become and vice versa. She may be completely lying but she it's also possible she may be saying the truth or some truth, hence, you got emotional knowing her saying that.

Am intelligent confident man would laugh so hard involuntary if he hears someone saying that about him, because he knows his worth and vice versa.

Dude, we have all been called names, dumb, idiot, tunnel vision, narrow or close minded, etc. These naysayers don't have effects on us and our worth as men. If she says what she says it's because she WANTS to piss you off, and it sounds like she did it. Ffs, this is not a bashing comment but if you say you are now not butthurt about it, but proceed to post an entire thread on it, it's because you're so butthurt. Learn to take negativity and shrug it off, then you'll learn to laugh it off eventually.

Last but not least, ALWAYS SHOW in actions the mere opposite of foolishness to your kid(s) not her, that over a long period of time, add they grow, would make them understand that their mom is just a nasty cunt who's bitter manipulative envious and unkind.

Cheers!

Impossible-asset · 2019-05-27T23:09:40+00:00

I think "simple-minded" is kindof a round-about way of saying someone is low functioning mentally.

Insults dont really bother me. Its just others projecting their emotions

GlobalAsshat · 2019-05-28T16:34:37+00:00

Simple mind can mean a lot of things...a lot of women who are supposedly worldly and sophisticated gossip about sophmorish things and a picky and spoiled. I would consider them to be rather simple minded.

Simple mind could mean the guy is cheap, a loser who plays video games, or an alpha that she got tired of being irresponsible after she had her fun with him...no way to know for sure.

Title	Simple mind
Author	johnnydh85
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	May 27, 2019 1:36 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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